What we can remind ourselves
That arguing with someone should not necessarily be a case where we need to win.
That we should once in a while lower our pride and tame our tongue. And speak nicely and positively.
That we choose to be grateful for everything. For the tips receive on this platform, for every little thing we have, for our life and for the people supporting us.
That we don't have to try so hard after trying so very hard and we aren't seeing results. As long as we gave our best and did the right thing to persistently. We also have to relax. There will be results, you'll see. Keep the faith and don't falter.
It pays when from time to time, we reflect on our lives. We think about our actions, we think about others, most importantly, we think of win win situations and solutions.
When we find ourselves tired and feel that we've had enough, we just have to make a deep breath, take a rest, and meditate, reflect and exercise.
You know what? We don't have to wait for things to go out of hand. I mean we don't have to be at edge, or bankrupt, or at a losing side in order to do the right things.
When we know how to appreciate what we have and do good with it, we can save up money, resources, pride, and even relationships.
When we choose to be grateful, we receive more. More because we aren't expecting anything grand.
Life taught people that having a win win solution is the best. There will be a longer term positive effect when two side are in balance with regards to winning.
Unlike when only one side wins. It will give negative thoughts to the other side. Example are thoughts of revenge, thoughts of getting back, and thoughts of wishing for others to get bad luck.
It isn't a good thing, having only one side win. It may be hard to do but will be worth it in the long run.
The mindset should be about the long-term consequences of all our actions.
Like in gasoline stations where each station will have an incentive to undercut prices for the hope of stealing customers.
But then it will have its price lowered in the succeeding days and weeks and the trade isn't able to sustain higher prices.
I just recently learned that in my subject of game theory. And it was very related to what I am writing about.
The challenge for us, including the one who is writing this, is to keep looking for alternatives that will give all parties an optimal result.
Ultimately, a good equilibrium will the scenario where all players are having an optimal payoffs.
We can remind ourselves to do what is best. And our conscience will guide us.
Because what we do now will have its payoff that it deserves. What we sow, we reap. What we save, we withdraw. And the like.
