Fake Help

A rainy Wednesday from my side 🌧️

How's life? Is it good or just so-so?

Hmm it's still stressful day for me but am always hopeful 💕 sometimes I find my self thinking about this and that but the thoughts will end up "aja! Fighting!, I can do this through the guidance of the Lord". Because I can't do anything without Him. If I will just rely on myself, nothing good will happen or worst, the negative aspects will prevail. The struggles am facing is just minimal compared to anyone. How've struggles are struggles, no one should invalidate your problem just because we're carrying different weight from other people.

There are people who will offer help, but be careful, there are instances that it's not genuine and will just harm you in the long run. A lot of deceiving people lurks around, and sad truth that sometimes it's someone close to you or run the same blood as yours. They present and offer help to make themselves look good, then when time comes they will guilt trip you saying if not for them you're nothing. No! It'll never be correct to tell it to someone you helped. Even if they for example become rich for the lil help you give you don't have the rights to claim that it's all because of you. It's also because of them. The hard-work, patience, sacrifices, and all other works were done by them- you just help a little.

I hope anyone who offered help will stay genuine with their intensions.

In the same case, those who received help and eventually had the chance to grow and free from worries, stay standing on the ground and never abandoned those who helped you when no one else was. Don't be such a jerk! If someone let you borrow money, it's not actually the money you should be thankful for, but their heart to help you. Their intentions to ease your worry. Even if you pay for that money, you should still remember that person's kindness, that in times of darkness they shared the light with you.

It's not just about money and material things that we should be thankful for when someone lend us. It's also about the intangible things, those little help. When someone helped you overcome your sadness, depression, and the likes. When someone sat beside you when you want someone's company. When someone opened the door for you, helped you with your stuff. These were just few of things that people will help you with. Be grateful.

Just remember to stay away from fake people who will offer you help with fake concern.

Someone's offering me help as of the moment but I know that the intention's not pure. How did I know? (Pano mo nasabe?? Hahah), I just know 😌 I knew that person and she did this already to our family countless times. Offering help just to say that we can't do anything without her and she's still the superior one. Well, we're not competing against her, it's just that she's so afraid we'll pass ahead her. Gosh she's too rich we don't want to be rich haha we just want to do business what's the big deal??

What if her intension is pure this time? Then good for her, she changed for the better. But no one can blame me if I can't trust and accept her help now. Am not the same young child she can drag down as much as she want. We're not the same family she can fool and make indebted to her.

Help with your pure heart, it'll be more self fulfilling.

Lovely and curious,

Curiouscat, Charlotte