Is being jealous when in love okay? If it is true love then maybe yes!

Oh, some of us if not most maybe at some point have all tasted the sweet sting of love!

The love for that precious one, when we start to slowly sacrifice our time in thinking about them, when we don't matter to ourselves more than them, when their happiness comes first, when they are the sun of our solar system and we vibe together, the common between us becomes an excuse to hangout and interact and the uncommon between us becomes a reason to interact more to learn from each other making us both interesting to each other ;) !

But, but, but, suddenly we see they are interacting with someone our unconscious brain might find as a "rival" even if it is barely a simple interaction about something trivial, our hearts race and our fears become ignited!

We start to feel insecure, we start to look on ourselves to see what might be wrong with us lately, we just want to have all of their attention back to us, we need them, we crave for them and else we start to actually hate ourselves, since we can't really actually hate the one who we love truly!

We become possessive, and a lot of jealous ;) We start to use all of our abilities to engage with them and bow down to their wishes, we show them that we love them more than anything else in the world and they matter life to us!

And it is so cute, isn't it?!

But, then there we start to think, is it really love and not anything else, because we have sometimes heard that in true love we always are happy when our love is happy and that includes even when they are happy to choose someone else over us. But it is so wrong!

While overly possessive in every situation might indicate that it is not a loving but possessive relationship, when we truly in love with someone, the fact that we are sooooo much jealous of them being with someone else is actually a positive sign!

In these situations, we show our love how much insecure we are, how much incomplete we are, how much unhappy we are, we become so much honest with them that it shows our vulnerabilities to them like a transparent glass and the love and care we hold for them becomes visible to them without shame! And it is cute, just imagine seeing your love being jealous and insecure when you talk to someone? Oh, he/she really loves you truly.

And the covers on the true love are faded away and our love sees the eternal and never-ending care for them, they feel more special than anything else in the universe and we gain them back ;)! Because it is oh so irresistible!

Cheers!