My Weakness

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4 years ago

Hello Guys goodevening. Im going to share this content of mine for this evening. I hope you will somehow learn from it.

Do you have a weakness inside you?Something that hinder your will to what you truly wants to be?

In this article of mine Im going to share my weakness and experiences I had in dealing with it. Some of it I overcome already and some of it still existing.

But Im going to share this one that have brought so much impact in my life way back then.

Ya know,I have lots of weaknesses. Infact I cant enumerate it all. Im a weak person mentally,spiritual but not physically coz Im physically fit. Physically healthy to the point way back as a child I got annoyed everytime my siblings got sick and got all the attention of my parents even cooked and bought what they want. hahaha🙊

Well that was all in the past,lets go back to the main topic.

The most attached weakness of mine is "insecurities". Yes thats right. I have a lot of insecurities within me. Ive been like this:

"Why is that person like that and me not?"

Why is that person is successful and me not?"

"Why is that person can do that and me not? "

Why is she pretty but well me prettier than her?"ahw..hahaha just kidding dont include this one😂.

Lots of why and used in degrading myself. Insecurities grew inside me way back then since I was use to compare with my older sister that she was good and I was not by my own family.

But then as maturity approached I tried to change myself,i look for my betterself and believe in what i got. I told myself everyone has a unique way of improving oneself,if they can do it I can do it too but in my own way not theirs. I encourage myself to do more good to the things I have love and kinda habbit.

That improved myself esteem and earn a little confidence step by step. I also accepted advices from others what was good for me especially from the people I loved and loved me. It was also bcoz of my older sister was always there supporting me all the way believing in me though others kept on comparing us she didnt allow that it would become a barrier between us.

The most important thing is PRAYER.I always prayed for my weaknesses specifically my insecurities that I can and would overcome it day by day.

Up to this Present time I still have an insecurities within me,but just a little portion perhaps.I guess it is just normal to feel insecure somehow but not to the point it will become our weakness. It will only hinder us to what we would like to achieve,insecurities will only kill our confidence and distract our motivations.

Thats all I can share about my endeavour and in how I dealt with my weakness.

So now how about you?do you still have your weakness inside you that hinder you to become a better person?You can share it as well.

Thank you for reading,its kinda long but hope you got something from it.

Have a blessed night everyone.😉

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Before, i can say that my weakness is i am lack of self confidence and i am insecure too. Why, because i am not beautiful, though beauty is in the eye of the beholder. The fact that i am physically not beautiful result for me the lack of confidence but somehow i manage to live with it.

Right now my weakness is my child. Being a parent now, she is my great weakness.

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Oh please dont say that you cant be confident only bcoz of your physical appearance we can be more beautiful in our own definition of beauty. For me beauty cant be measured only by physical appearance,we are all created by the Image of God and we are all perfect in His eyes outward but what matters most to Him is that our soul,our personality. Whats it beyond this appearance of us,if its the beauty or darkness,its up to us to chose. But I know your more than a beauty outside so just believe in yourself.

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Living with insecurities is like chasing your tail with intentions. That's good to know that you have finally stepped up and moved forward from that phase. What was the turning point?

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I cant really say that I have finally moved forward with no traces of insecurities inside me. It is still here actually a little but not like way back that it always consumed me that drived me to darkness and loneliness..that is what I have been working on still friend,I cant say I already reach that turning point of my life but almost there..😊

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Hmmm, I claimed it already that you have surpassed it because for sure you'll get there anytime. Might be tomorrow or the next day after that 🤭☺

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Oh thank you friend. I hope it will be tomorrow,I didnt have a chance in evaluating myself with that matter since Im always filled with hapiness and I think its a great sign..But I hope its already gone..

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It really is a great sign. Happiness equals contentment. In other words, contentment kicks out your insecurities. So I hope your happiness overflows. ☺🤞

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Good for you dear you can cope up or overcome some of your weaknesses but not for me. I wish i am like you.

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You can also do it sis. I know you also have a lot of people out there who value you more than you can think of,you can use their support as a strength to overcome those weaknesses step by step..

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insecurities are also one of my biggest weakness ate🙂I always want to be like her(coz she is beautiful)to be like him(coz he is smart)to be like them🙂I want to get rid of this coz it's killing me not physically but emotionally and mentally.It affects my everyday living🙂It's like i'm living into this kind of problem and that's not bigdeal anymore🙂

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I think most of us having a hard time in dealing our weaknesses..Its just like a nightmare at real life that always hunts us. But please dont give up,gather more inspirations and motivations to conquer your weakness. I dont know what you've been through but every one of us can find our own way of dealing with our weaknesses,do not escape from it it will eventually hunt you down but deal with it in conquering it.

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Yes,i think kase pagnag rurun away tayo sa weakness natin instead of dealing with it, it seems mas lalo lang din nating pinapagsawalang bahala yon kaya pwede tayong mas maging mahina:) Thank you ate🤗❤️You always thaught me a lesson in every article you made😊

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