How to Make Your Girlfriend Happy

Being in a relationship is more than just a change in status. A healthy relationship is a give and take process where two people work together to build and further strengthen their bonds.

Everyone want a happy and a healthy relationship and to achieve that, you must make sure your special someone is happy too. Here are some ways on how to make your girlfriend the happiest person in the world.

1. Earn her trust

Trust is the very foundation of relationships. Earning her trust is essential if you want your relationship to last because without it, you cannot be comfortable with each other and that would lead to an unstable relationship.

There are many ways of earning her trust. Some of these ways include:

a. Be honest and tell her what she needs to know and don’t make her feel that you’re hiding something.

b. Stand by your words, keep your promises, do what you said you would do and always fulfill your responsibilities.

c. Give her assurance.  She can’t help herself from worrying too much sometimes that’s why you need to ensure that everything’s alright and she has you whatever happens.

2. Be open to her

This is connected in earning her trust. Sharing things about you especially those things that others don’t know will strengthen your relationship in many ways. Vulnerability makes her know and feel the real you. Vulnerability also aids good emotional and mental health which are essential for you to have a happy relationship.

3. Respect her personal space

Though it feels so much better being with your special someone, you still need to give her time to do the things she loves without you. Be matured enough and give her time to hang out with her friends too. Being in a good relationship means that you both can do the things you love with a very little restriction. What I meant about very little restrictions are those boundaries you need not to cross that would compromise your relationship.

Basically, you just need to make her feel that it’s okay for her to do her personal things and it’s okay for her to have her alone time.

4. Be a good listener

Showing her that you’re always there to listen means a lot to her, trust me. Listening to her shows that you really care for her. When she’s talking or saying something to you, make sure to distance yourself away from distractions (like putting down your phone) and give her your attention. Make her feel that she’s a priority.

For me, a good listener is an active listener. You listen and understand what she’s trying to say and give her your response or comments on the topic being talked about. In this way, she will also feel that you’re interested with what she’s talking about.

5. Show your humorous side

Tell her jokes, puns, and pick-up lines no matter how corny they are.  Share her some memes also and laugh with her. Making her happy by showing your humorous side creates a comfortable environment for the both of you. However, remember to be careful not to cross the line. If she’s not genuinely laughing with a certain type of joke, drop it immediately.

6. Compliment her

A genuine compliment will make her heart melt. Always remind her what she means to you. Complimenting her make her feel that she’s loved and appreciated and also boosts her confidence.

7. Talk things out calmly

Disagreements and misunderstandings are normal in a relationship and when they arise, make sure to resolve them as soon as possible and as calmly as possible. If such conflict turns into a heated argument, give each other time to cool down first because being angry interferes with your ability to think straight and this would make your situation much worse.

8. Food!

If your girlfriend is a food lover then giving her food will definitely make her happy. Giving her something to eat makes her feel that you care for her.

9. Make time for her

Giving her time make her feel wanted and important. This will make your partner feel that she has you when things get tough. Spending time with her and going on simple dates can help re-establish your connection and also strengthen your bond.

10. Show her you love her

This is actually a summary of the 9 items mentioned. Telling her you love her is not enough. You must show her that you really do love her in your own ways. Do the simple things because those simple things are bigger than you think they are.

If married people say “a happy wife is a happy life,” then I say, “if you’re girlfriend is happy, life is as sweet as taffy”

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