I bet I’m not the only one who is bothered by some unusual circumstances.

I am not the type of person who will always check on you but can catch up with you.

But how do we manage ourselves when we feel that we don’t please the people we used to be comfortable with?

Of course, we should not because we cannot please everybody at all times. But does it hurt when somebody do not welcome you the way they did before?

It feels like the world goes upside down, it doesn’t feel good, isn’t? Even we don’t have any idea what happened to be treated like nothing.

Even we think very carefully and find any reason or answers with the questions in our mind. The possibilities that they are having hard times or you weren’t aware of your faults or anything will not considered as valid to just act in unusual way.

I just want to drop this advice that, no matter how hard you are going through, no matter how heavy your burdens or even if you have all the negative vibes, try to calm yourself before you talk.

Try to think and talk to yourself that you can still act they way you should and the way what kind of person you really are.

Never use the excuse of having problems when you act terribly around the people.

Do not associate your negative side with your positive side. Do not bring your problems from home to your work/school.

Distance yourself with everybody if you really do not feel good and you think that you will not do any good to them.

Trust me, they will understand you no matter how rough the road you are walking in. They may offer you their capabilities to help. They may try to make you feel good.

People cannot live alone. Remember “No man is an island”. So, instead of being rude or take actions in a wrong way, try to appreciate their existence in your life, their purpose in your life or maybe you can just ignore everything around you and meditate for the mean time.

You can always be good even you do not feel good.

You can always help even if you are also in need of help.

You can always have a good time even if you are having a bad time.

You cannot have everything you want but you can have anything you need and whatever enables you to get.

You may be bothered by unusual things but you may feel comfortable if you do not overthink with it in a negative way.

If you can understand other people, then you must understand yourself too.

Understand that you are able to react, remain silent or be repulsive in different ways. Just never forget to be good, because in times of intense moment, being good will never makes you regret.

I just tried to make this free writing task. I understand if you got bored lol. I encourage all of us to always choose to be good at all costs.