Bothered but managed to stay good
I bet I’m *not* the only one who is bothered by some unusual circumstances.
I am not the type of person who will always check on you but can catch up with you.
**But how do we manage ourselves when we feel that we don’t please the people we used to be comfortable with?**
Of course, we should not because we cannot please everybody at all times. But does it hurt when somebody do not welcome you the way they did before?
It feels like the world goes upside down, it doesn’t feel good, isn’t? Even we don’t have any idea what happened to be treated like nothing.
Even we think very carefully and find any reason or answers with the questions in our mind. The possibilities that they are having hard times or you weren’t aware of your faults or anything will not considered as valid to just act in unusual way.
I just want to drop this advice that, no matter how hard you are going through, no matter how heavy your burdens or even if you have all the negative vibes, try to calm yourself before you talk.
Try to think and talk to yourself that you can still act they way you should and the way what kind of person you really are.
Never use the excuse of having problems when you act terribly around the people.
Do not associate your negative side with your positive side. Do not bring your problems from home to your work/school.
Distance yourself with everybody if you really do not feel good and you think that you will not do any good to them.
Trust me, they will understand you no matter how rough the road you are walking in. They may offer you their capabilities to help. They may try to make you feel good.
People cannot live alone. Remember “No man is an island”. So, instead of being rude or take actions in a wrong way, try to appreciate their existence in your life, their purpose in your life or maybe you can just ignore everything around you and meditate for the mean time.
You can always be good even you do not feel good.
You can always help even if you are also in need of help.
You can always have a good time even if you are having a bad time.
You cannot have everything you want but you can have anything you need and whatever enables you to get.
You may be bothered by unusual things but you may feel comfortable if you do not overthink with it in a negative way.
If you can understand other people, then you must understand yourself too.
Understand that you are able to react, remain silent or be repulsive in different ways. Just never forget to be good, because in times of intense moment, being good will never makes you regret.
I just tried to make this free writing task. I understand if you got bored lol. I encourage all of us to always choose to be good at all costs.
How to be productive within a day?
I just came up with my own ideas.
Normally, we have to work or attend meetings weekdays and sometimes even on weekends.
THE NIGHT BEFORE THE DAY OF YOUR CLASS OR MEETING OR WORK, DO YOUR BEST TO HAVE ENOUGH SLEEP.
Find comfortable spot to sleep, put your bedsheets and pillowcases that has cotton or kind of cloth that you love.
Have enough meal because we often feel sleepy after we eat because we are full (of course, have a healthy meal).
Make sure you will not gonna sweat because of what you wear and turn on your preferred power of electric fan or air conditioner.
Humidifier may also helps you to have a wonderful fragrant and will make you feel very comfortable.
Having a bath before you go to bed can also helps you to feel sleepy in a few minutes.
Put your phone away from yourself, you can put in on the table or cabinet or anywhere else but not within the foam or bed. It also helps to prevent you from radiation.
WAKE UP EARLY IN THE MORNING.
Some people say that the first thing we achieve within the day is when we fetch our bed after we woke up. If you can, wake up before sunrise and watch the sunrise while having breakfast ‘cause it can help to boost your mood for the day. Avoid checking your social media right after you open your eyes. You may listen to any music you preferred and if you still have enough time before you eat breakfast, then have some meditation or yoga or some warm ups and then proceed to exercise.
AFTER YOU HAD A TIME FOR YOURSELF AND BOOSTING YOUR MOOD, TAKE A BATH
Some of us are lazy to take a bath when we do not have to go outside. But I swear that having shower in the morning is such a huge help to start a day with a productive spirit. **We just have to do what we used to do when we go out, so that it’ll feel the same way even if we’re just staying indoor.**
IF YOU STILL HAVE PLENTY OF TIME BEFORE YOU START YOUR RESPONSIBILITIES IN WORK OR CLASS, DO YOUR PASSION OR MAKE SOMETHING DIFFERENT EACH DAY
• You can cook for yourself
• You can create your own music
• Play some instruments
• Dance or sing with your favorite songs
• Read whichever you preferred
• Catch up with the news
• Leave some messages to your love ones
• Make some desserts or prepare some dishes
• Write whatever you want
• Explore through surfing internet
• Taking care plants or animals
• Decorate your house or even your room
• Pray or have devotion (This is recommended before you sleep and after you wake up)
AFTER THAT, YOU CAN PROCEED TO THE THINGS YOU SHOULD START WITH
Sometimes, even we woke up early in the morning, we still have short time to relax and to do whatever we want because we still have to finish household chores before anything else.
So, everyone listen up! It’s up to you on how will you manage your time to get everything done within a day. I swear that it’ll all be worth it and your sleep at night will have no more cut because it’ll help to have a very well sleep and will make your body clock be on time in the morning. A cycle that will make you somehow healthy even without socializing physically or going outside. I hope you may have a peace of mind even after all the stress you’ve got from your work and studies!
Always strive more guys, we are never too late to do something different to gain the better version of ourselves.
“Listening openly, patiently, and attentively is one of the most significant expressions of love.”
Excerpt From
Love for Imperfect Things
Haemin Sunim
When you know when will your life will end, what are you going to do?
Mine? Maybe I will praise Him more and will try my best to create things which will be the way for people to remember me and inspire them to live a life with purpose. Living according to your principles or values may be an example and to help people realize the things about them and start doing something for a good cause. What’s yours?
Did you know that Google has Podcasts now?
Just open your Chrome and tap the 9 dots formed as a square beside your profile and you will see this
Click the Podcasts
Good news, it's free!
Enjoy listening! Please drop your recommended podcasts. Thanks!
Remember, rivers do not drink their own water, trees do not eat their own fruits, the sun does not shine on itself, flowers do not spread its fragrance for themselves.
Living for others is the rule of nature. We are all born to help each other. If you want to be happy, make others happy.
- Pope Francis
Happy Sunday everyone! Hope enable us to do anything good and believe in things that are beyond our control so never lose hope.
I’m glad to know your ideas too
Learning never exhausts the mind.
- Leonardo da Vinci
In the middle of the book Breaking Dawn of Stephenie Meyer, I almost cried and really felt how Edward made Bella his world and life. That kind of love is so rare now, the love of life and death which makes love being perfect despite its full of imperfections.
This is worth to read and worth to share
This was a message from my best friend. This is heart warming and a kind of eye opener.
How do you meditate guys?
How to verify your account on gcash easily?
There are few steps to do to verify your account on gcash. You may find them easily when you opened your gcash app, but it takes few days or 24hrs for them to verify your personal information.
When you need to verify your account right away
Simply, just go to Villarica pawnshop and they will assist you and will get your gcash account verified. Just bring valid ID and they will have your account verified in just few minutes.
HAVE A NICE DAY EVERYONE!!!
Explore more on GCASH
Hi, I would like to introduce this new features of gcash. I think it’s new or maybe I’m just new using this as an investment or savings account. Normally, it is used for saving money for the mean time but it’s more worth to save if it has interest! You can invest or rather save money very conveniently here! Here are the steps how:
YOU CAN SEE THE PIGGYBANK LOGO NAMED SAVE MONEY
CLICK SAVE MONEY AND YOU WILL SEE THIS
YES, IT SAYS THAT CIMB BANK HAS THE HIGHEST INTEREST IN THE COUNTRY. THEY ALSO HAVE PROMOS AND WILL UPDATE YOU THROUGH TEXT.
That’s why GCASH demands valid ID because they have all the features we might need. Very convenient right? Why not try it? We all know the legitimacy of GCASH and so CIMB.
I hope it helps us all! Save more, spend later!
Hi. Can we talk about some music? What are your favorite songs or what songs do you want to promote or share with us here?
I’ll drop mine first.
Flightless Bird
Roslyn - Bon Iver
LANY songs
Niall Horan’s songs
G dragon’s songs
BTS songs
Thank you for a generous upvote @jshidg u really are the best and your articles are all worth to read!!! ❤️
Idea on how to be sure if your mask is protecting you effectively
First step, get your mask on
Second, get a lighter or even a match will do
Third, while your mask is on your face, put the fire on which produced by lighter or match then try to blow it up while wearing your mask and see if it will wipe or not.
Depending on how your blow will impact the fire is the inefficiency of your mask. So, it's better if the fire will not move despite how strong you blow it while wearing a mask.
Let's help each other by staying safe! Let's defeat this virus!
Nothing's certain, risking is how we live
Start learning to love the imperfect things
Never stop finding your purpose in life
Productivity
Accomplishments each day is a receipt of ourselves that we are able to do something and finish it.
You keep learning while you keep working.
You enhance your skills when you keep using it and found something more about yourself.
Concentration and perseverance leads you to move forward until you get to win the opportunities you have and gain more because you already know the process.
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Hi! Anyone who loves to read novels or self help books? Drop your recommendation or favorite authors if you have (:
Hi, may you share the funniest moment in your life or even the latest that you can remember?
bakit isa sa pinaka mahirap na bansa ang Pilipinas?
bakit isa sa pinaka mahirap na bansa ang Pilipinas?
once in my life aspired to be a CPA but not everything you want is meant to be yours, counting money that is not yours is definitely not my thing but being a lawyer has been my consistent goal. Sadly, the budget in our country from some institution in department of health has been embezzled, another thing is that our president here granted an absolute pardon this foreign criminal who nefariously killed his girlfriend when he found that she is a transgender.
This is my latest grief for my fellow citizens.
Future panyeras and panyeros, we fight with law not to abuse and use it to be selfish.
once in my life aspired to be a CPA but not everything you want is meant to be yours, counting money that is not yours is definitely not my thing but being a lawyer has been my consistent goal. Sadly, the budget in our country from some institution in department of health has been embezzled, another thing is that our president here granted an absolute pardon this foreign criminal who nefariously killed his girlfriend when he found that she is a transgender.
This is my latest grief for my fellow citizens.
Future panyeras and panyeros, we fight with law not to abuse and use it to be selfish.
Long time ago, Spain suffered for 2 years caused by Spanish flu and affected estimating 500 million people
Long time ago, Spain suffered for 2 years caused by Spanish flu and affected estimating 500 million people
Spaniards colonized Philippines for 333 years
Spaniards colonized Philippines for 333 years
what should I do when I do not know how to love?