When some kind of failure happens to us (on a business or private level), it seems to us that all the ships have sunk and that the failure we have experienced is a defeat from which we will never recover, the most painful thing that has happened to us. However, ups and downs are something that always happens in life and every defeat should in some way be seen as an opportunity to achieve some new victory.
Life is a challenge, but we are stronger than that challenge, because we are the ones who live it, he "does not live" us, and that is a challenge worth fighting for. We choose, we win, we want, we own our lives. A smile is the only crooked line that corrects things, unfortunately statistics show that we laugh less and less, and laughter and optimism are part of a healthy step through life.
Each of us has experienced some failure at some point in our lives. Defeat is a kind of universal principle. We lose jobs, get divorced, spend money in an irrational way, get into debt zad When these traumas occur, the situations we find ourselves in are also more or less familiar to everyone: denial, isolation, anger, depression and ultimately acceptance. However, the way we fight all of this is not as important as how we remember the losing experience. The greatest defeats are not forgotten. They become an integral part of our lives and ask us to embrace them or perish, there is no third. The great thing about surviving these storms is that we are much better prepared the next time the wind starts to blow. The first symptoms are noticed immediately, and then we just need to focus on the most important ones. Once the defeat is pushed over the head, the most important feeling is that, no matter what happens, we can always start from the beginning again. In a way, defeat makes us ready in a way that success never succeeds. Defeats should always be seen as temporary accidents. Injuries should be seen as red flags that signal weak spots in our body. If we support them well, we will never give up in the race again. Even when it seems to us that everything went wrong, we should not panic. We need to look back and see how we got into this chaos. If the situation that bothers us is viewed from several aspects, it can still seem that what happened to us turns out to be the best thing that could have happened to us in the given circumstances.
I always tell myself that the best thing is what happens to us. That will shape our character and determine our attitude in the face of adversity. This is living. Face situations, learn to solve them and move on. Because there will always be difficulties and our tools that we have developed will be there, ready to defend us.