Responsibility is a simple but by no means easy topic. Life can sometimes hit us in a rather awkward way. Sometimes he can make things difficult for us from the very beginning. Sometimes happiness turns out of the way and everything goes in a direction we didn’t expect.
Many people cannot accept the fact that they and only they are 100% responsible for everything that happens in their lives. Wouldn’t it be perfect for your life to flow the way you want it to? Isn't it wonderful to know that your success does not depend on when, but exclusively on yourself? It must have happened to you that, when something went wrong or you realized that you did something stupid with some hasty decision, you put the blame on someone else, parents, partner, boss, colleague, children ...
We shape life every day, we shape ourselves as a person and really no one else is to blame for that! Successful people take responsibility for all their thoughts or actions, whether they are good or bad. They do not waste energy on who is to blame because they are aware that they are the only ones responsible for everything that happens to them. To succeed in life and live life "to your liking", see what needs to change and take action! You create everything in your head yourself. Whenever you blame any of the external forces for your bad life situation, it means that you have rejected all your power and thus caused pain, blockage and depression. Indicators of not taking responsibility in any area of life can be some of these feelings: anger, anxiety, blaming others, pain, revenge, distraction, self-pity, envy, helplessness, impatience, displeasure, fatigue, fear, obsession, bias, disappointment , envy…
Whenever people accuse or excuse themselves of someone or something, they are in fact just not ready to take responsibility for their own lives. By doing so, they make a helpless victim of themselves. By inventing various "intelligent" excuses, they take away their power and hand it over to someone or something. And that is easier, but it is not an attitude that brings progress and progress in life, on the contrary!
Whenever you say: "What can I do here, it's not my fault, it's not up to me…", ask yourself what it would be like for you to do something, what you can do, whatever, but to find some part that you can take on and you say to yourself: "That's how it is, and I will still do everything I can, everything in my power in this situation…".
He who seeks an excuse always finds it, as does he who seeks a way, and he always finds it. So if something is important to you you are looking for a way. If you won't, you're not ready, he hates you, it's hard for you, not to like it, that's fine, but then don't whine about it, just accept it as your choice and stay aware of your responsibility.
Dear Friend Bakanica, you have touched on an important issue. It's a great article and I liked it very much. Everyone does their best according to their own experience, knowledge and consciousness. If we were in the place of the person we tried to accuse, we would do the same. "No! I definitely do not." I can hear those who say. 😊 If we had lived the life he lived; If we had his knowledge, experience, consciousness and character structure, we would undoubtedly do the same.
Therefore, it is necessary to take responsibility for our own lives, to grow and develop.
These days, I've been a little away from you and my other dear friends. But I haven't forgotten any of you. I love you all. Greetings and love. 🙏🧡