"Single And Ready to Mingle"

#14th Blog
April 13,2022

Many have asked how they can find a potential life partner. you can see where there are many singles. according to the sexy statistical and coordination board (NSCB), as of 2007 NCR and ARMM have the most singles in the country aged 25 and over when we say single including those who are not yet married separated from their spouses divorced and annulled the marriage and widows and widowers.

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The fact of the matter is there is no "magic formula" on how to find a mate. The first thing we should do is bring our feelings closer to the Lord. We, however, should never over-romanticize our relationship with god. we spiritualize when it comes to this matter, we lose wisdom.There are things that can increase your chances of getting married.Here are three major recommendations.

Be intentional in meeting other singles

• Have an active social life.Many singles have their own bat cave at home. they don't seem to want the sun. They are always in front of the TV and computer and that is their forever companion in life.Singles should not only know where the opposite s-- are but also when they are there .Also ,singled who do not get married often work during odd hours.This is one reason why they do not have time to socialize with others. So advice, if you want to get married, do not take a job that will reduce your chances of meeting potential life partners. You need to make an effort to socialize with eligible men/women.You must make time to meet people so that you can widen your horizon and increase the number of your options.

Take care of your appearance and character

• all relationships begin with attraction.Because men are visually-oriented, the visually-appealing are the first you notice.don't irritate the horizontally-endowed.A woman's weight is inversely proportional to their ability to attract men. Many are turned off to fat.this is not a satire but a statistical fact.Adjust the diet to be physically fit.Take care of yourself, don't expect to be a guy/girl magnet if your fashion is lotion or baduy during the season. If you have good hygiene habits you could garner few admirers. habit.In men, a pleasing personality and being a gentleman can provide you more pogi points.

Be realistic about your expectations for your future Partner

• Don't have too high standards. You may be disillusioned and just wait for nothing to be right. Unreasonable expectations will decrease your chances of finding a spouse.There is no perfect guy/lady. Also, don't be too low or you have almost no standard.Desperation often results in impatience.Impatience leads to wrong Decisions.

Is he really "THE ONE"?

• when will you know if he is really the one for you? I contwmd that you can't really know for certain until you say "I DO" in front of god and many people at the wedding ceremony.Until you can't tell your partner that you are ready to live with him and only death can separate you, it is unlikely to say you already found the one. But if what you are asking is your feeling if he really is, we have a few things to look at.Before you say your vows,you have to die to yourself.It is not only your well -being that will be followed in the relationship but the well -being of both of you.

CONVICTION

• This is the belief in how you feel. You really love him. Even if you turn the world upside down. Even if some others discourage you from leaving him, he really is. You have known each other for a significant amount of time And you accept each other's weaknesses, strengths and past.You cannot see yourself satisfied without having him/her as your life partner.You will not be comfortable if he is not always with you. The saying is true, "You don't marry someone you can live with, you marry the person you can't live without.

COUNSELLING

• Not everything is reached by the radar of your emotions and mind. There are things that others see that you do not notice. This is why you need to seek advice from them. A wise person seeks counsel. your parents, counselor, pastor or friends will give you a bigger picture of what is already going on in your lovelife. Seek advice from people you trust.Foremost, seek God's wisdom through prayer and reading his word.while asking for advice, be teachable.

CIRCUMSTANCES

• There are things that happen in our lives that we never plan but they happen. That's the type of anything other people do to destroy your relationship, it stays strong. There are couples who separate temporarily but they still eventually. Many believe in "DESTINY", because they feel that all the forces of the universe and the sky are united to bring them to the situation where they can be with a specific person and nobody else.Discern these events, What you have in mind is the will of god,"All things will work together for your benefits".

I won't tire of thanking you both for the support you gave me. Even though I'm not good at writing articles, I can do it. As long as you keep working and don't lose hope, all you really need is diligence and perseverance.

Is "DESTINY" really true?

• Is there really a "ONE and ONLY" that the lord has for each of us? This issue is complicated because of the conflict of two positions those who say we have no choice because the sky has already set everything (Fatalism), and the we believe in shaping our future.(The power of free will).

• We need to refine the answer to this question.The lord has sovereign wisdom and power.He knows the beginning and ending of our life.He is charge We weregiven the freedom of choice.We have the power to obey or disobey his will.you can have the best partner god has reserved for you. What will dictate this is whether you follow his will or let yourself. in this situation, you may not get the "the best" he has intended for you.You may have engaged in wrong relationships in the past .Whatever mistakes we have made, the lord can fix our lives.He can make all things can work together for ypur good if you really Love him.

Thank you so Much for reading!!

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