Courting or Getting lost?

#16th
April 15,2022

You are beautiful, my darling. Your eyes are wide, shining, seductive as you watch

Song of Solomon 1:15

Courtship comes from the French word corteare which means to pay homage. This is also where the words "courteous" come from in front of an adult or if you are in a formal setting, and gathering.There is no one method or standard on how to work.It depends on the culture you belong to

Read the novels of Jane Austen, an English novelist, to know how rigid the courtship rules were in her time. When it is said Oerson is courting, there is effort. Why? Because, a man wants to be a wife for life the woman he likes. The desire to marry cannot be separated from courtship. Courtship rules were strict in the Victorian era In the united kingdom (1837-1901).

A man and a woman can't just talk. A formal introduction is needed. After that, men who want to woo give a romantic card to the woman they like. The woman decides which card to choose. All courtship is took place in the woman's house while the parents were watching. And when marriage proposals are discussed, they have to be in writing, because it is a formal expression of love.

The philippines is one of the most colorful courtship system. if you can read old works/literature and watch old movies, you will better understand how young men make an effort, only the young lady he loves can answer. the love story begins with the man's allusions about a woman's beauty or modesty.

A man often has a bridge especially if he is stupid so that he can express his feelings. The best friend of the man or the woman usually sends a message to each other. maiden at nightfall. in this state the young man begins to show his chivalry. Meanwhile, the woman is all about projecting Maria clara attitude which is always "Hard to get".if the girl's parents approve of the man,they will let the boy Courting there Daughter.

Remember that there is a right time to courtship

if you arrive early at the bus/jeepney station, you have to wait for the vehicle to arrive. You will also have to wait for the next bus to arrive if you miss the trip. You feel the climate. (I.e. priorities, feelings) of your life and the life of the person you are dating. Everything is made perfect in gods time. When you have been rejected twice, you must have an idea if you type a woman. you're desperate if you cram yourself into him, It's hard to hope if you think you're just "Until Friends" really.Kaya Move Kana lang pag ganito mangyari sayo!

Court with the right reason

the others are just Courting because of social pressure or they are just forced by friends. They are just tempted, they have stayed. court her if you are serious about how you feel. and not just games.

First check the will of the suitor

When you are young, you think that everyone who is beautiful and handsome can get married. As you get older, you will realize that the goodness of your will is more important for your marriage to be good. It is said in a song, beauty is like a garment and painting at home, transient and finite. so, never be deceived. Also pray that the lord will give you the person who can accept your whole being warts and all.

Coax the woman's family

If western culture flags individualism, it is important in Filipino culture to love family and community. Recognize and love the loved one of the person you are courting. Think that you will not only court the girl but also her family. you learn to love and respect your future in-laws and in-laws. It shows you are serious about how you feel. and keep your motive clean.

Be a gentleman

court with the woman at home, not in text or in the corner. Do the courting at the woman's house where you will meet her family. Make sure you can be trusted if you go out to take the woman home, completely and ok!

Display sincerity and genuine Character

The man's approach to courtship is often the best foot forward. Polite, fragrant, waxed hair and gentleman in everything. Pretending has an expiration date. You need to be honest and true in what you show. and others are expected of you. It is difficult to maintain a fake character. Many relationships are destroyed because the partner has a cheating race. Whether what you see is what you get or (WYSWYG).No pretensions.

Learn that patience is a virtue

If a man is serious about how he feels, he will try to make the woman fall in love. The impatient, nothing is cooked. when a woman lets you go astray, it only means that you have hope in her. so don't feel broken plaque question after question of "Do I still have hope?" that's why you're flirting to increase the chance of being liked, isn't it? even if the woman looks at you, don't expect you to be right away. Expect a little challenge for prove true. Unless the woman tells you to stop, just go straight. Prove that you are honest and serious about how you feel.

Remember that marriage should be The goal of dating

Why are you a lover if you have no intention of marrying the woman? Pity the girl if you just enjoy being her Girlfriend but you have no plans to present her to a man with a future in her life. You will just waste the precious years of her loving life her.Show real commitment, Plan when marry her when you are with her.

Top Five signs that you have a chance to the Girl you are courting

• 1. He will tell you directly that you have hope.

• 2. The response to your courtship is positive. You just let it go.

• 3.His friends tell you that he is looking at you.

• 4. Quiet, becoming tongue-tied or shuttering when you talk.

• 5.when you look at, smile at you, become concious, or show gesture clues (I.E. fixing hair, posture).

Thank you for Reading !

#16th

Your's truly

• Zyrel04