The age of marriage

27 April 2023

Hello readers, Greetings to all. I hope you're all doing well and enjoying your lives.

Life is only given once, so one should strive to live it well. In life, there are many things that happen only once, and they are a very important part of life

Wedding is one of these events and it is meant to happen. This time is going to come in my life as well, and these days there are discussions happening in my house related to it.

How did it all started in my life?

In my maternal grandmother's household, there are three kids of the same age:

• Me and my 2 cousins. We were very good friends in childhood, but as we grew up, due to some family responsibilities, only two of us remained close while the other one became distant.

• But then suddenly one day I found out that my parents have finalized the marriage proposal between me and my cousin who is like a brother to me and now he become my fiance.

• I was so shocked to hear that.... after some days, I messaged him and asked him if he knew about this thing and the answer was more surprising. He said he was the one who wants this to happen and he has been liking me for a long time. I was so shocked and surprised that words ran out of my mind.

  

  

• It took me about a year to accept the proposal related to my marriage from my buddy-like brother, and during that time, I felt very anxious. He kept asking me if I was happy or not, so I replied that I am happy on my parents' happiness. As time passed, I also started liking him and it has been four years since all of this happened.

There was a plan for my aunt to come to our house on this Eid, and she was supposed to bring my Eid( gifts for eid festival it includes clothes, shoes, chocolates, etc) and we were also supposed to have a proper engagement

but Due to some busy schedules, their plan got cancelled. And now, I don't know when she is going to come, but the marriage topic is not going to end in our house.

I am very irritated from this, as I don't want to marry now. I want to become financially stable and more mature, and want the same for him as well before marriage.

I have some goals related to my career, and I want to fulfill them before marriage because I think marriage demands responsibility, and for now or in coming 2 -3 years, I am not ready to take all theses challenges.

Life is all about trying or experiencing new things... In the beginning, it may seem a little difficult, but once a person takes the first step, everything becomes easy.

Life begins at the end of your comfort zone.

( Neale Donald Walsch)

Thats all for today. I hope you read it and may b relate with it...

Thanks for reading!!

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