When you can't express your grief to anyone .. When you can't understand your own condition .. When you get tired of trying .. The mind stops working .. Tears don't decrease .. All day passes through one .. If you put yourself in trouble, it also becomes a means to get out of this difficulty .. It takes exams so be patient .. It puts you to the test so be thankful. He cries so that you can be pure hearted .. He also makes you quiet so that you can believe .. He assures you that he is with you everywhere ...
 "Your Lord has not forsaken you, nor is He displeased with you."
 It is comforting to read this.
 And he chooses those whom he wants to make special .. Then what is the point of grief .. How comforting it is that no one else is watching us crying but our Creator
We knows better that Allah always with us