There are times in life that we are down and we need someone's help. Yes, not all the time we are healthy and productive but the worst feeling in the world is when losing someone you love and that's the only time that some people notice you and come to you.
Why?
Why people know you when you are in mourn.
You can appreciate their presence but not their intention for they just faking it, if they wanted to help, they should show their sympathy when that person is still alive.
Why people stay beside you all night when someone is gone.
Because this is a tradition to the community people are obliged to stay but why not before when that person can recognized you all.
Why people gather together to help you when someone is dead
Why just now where that person can't feel your help.Why just now where that person can't say thank you and appreciated your effort.
Why people gave incentives when they cant see him anymore
Why just now where that person can't touch, feel eat, spend and enjoy.
Why, when that person is alive, no one can appreciate him.No one can go with him. No one can offer something.No one gave him help. No one can notice him.
But when that person is gone:
People notice him and spread the news and gather together.Just like he is important before. People showing that they are sad but why?when that person is suffering no one show sadness to him. No wonder why that person gave up. For no one show kindness to him.
But why just now that the person is dead
Why now that he no longer appreciate your effort.Why now that he can no longer felt your love.When before he is longing for love, help, and attention.
When that person is still alive
You've given many chance to help.He is greedy for your help.But no one can feel his need.
Why crying and saying thank you, i love you, when you cant even say hello, hi, how are you when he is still there lying in the bed. People saying I will miss you, you even right in his coffin I love, praying for you.Its like that person is important to you when that person is alive you can't even say I love you.
What do you call to your attitude now?That you just help when a person is gone?That you just noticed people when you cant see him anymore..That he is already dead.
This is the sad part of life when no one appreciated you, love you and care for you but when someone is dead people go together giving their help. This is good but it is more apprecited if you do your best to help when that person is still alive. If you do that your making that person strong and keep fighting his life. You're showing that someone is still worthy to live his/her life.If someone know that theres someone out there loving him/her he/she will fight his life but if none that someone feel pity to his self and become hopeless. So if you wanted to show how much you love someone do it now before its too late.
Showing kindness and love to all people you know is something that you need to do now so that you don't have regret that you ignore them, that you've taken them for granted, when they are still alive. Don't just show your love when they are gone for its already useless. Know the importance of their presence, value them now, give them time, makes moments together, and share love together.
Don't just notice people when its too late for this will be your greatest regret in life. If you value your life, then value the life of other people too.If you appreciate yourself, know to appreciate others too. If you love yourself, then love others too. If you pray for yourself, then pray for others too. Don't just do this when a person is gone do it when that person is still alive so that when they are going to say goodbye in this world they will say it with happiness and contentment.
Saying goodbye to someone you love is not easy and its hard to accept especially when you know yourself you ignore that someone, you ignore his/her presence.Its hard to accept when your help is already late. Its hard to accept when you still want to make that someone to be happy but you couldn't do it anymore becuase its already late. What you can only do is to regret and it also hard for you to forgive yourself when you know you have sin/shortcomings to that someone.
Its more easy to say goodbye to someone when you know you did all your best to show how much you love him/her. Its more easy to say goodbye when you know you give him/her attention and when you give him the care and love that she/ he needed.Its more easy to say goodbye when you know you give him/her respect and when you know you made him/her happy in his/her life.
You don't know what will happen in the future if you have the opportunity to love, care and help people do it now. Don't save that when they have gone, do it now, for they are still there. Your sorry and saying goodbye is useless when they can't feel it anymore. Embrace all people you know, give them importance for life is short. Don't ignore them for they are the most precious gift in the world. All people deserve to be love and accepted no matter who he/she is.All people deserve to be happy before they gone.Make your life meaningful by spreading your love, open your hands to help, open your heart not only to your loveones but also to other people, Do this before its too late and regret it later.
Surely here people only know how to suck a person when he is alive and how to love when he is expired.Your all Questions and their detailed ans represent the new era and its deficiencies.Although it influences to do that as the people deserved.But we should ignore haters and loved everyone.