The Perks of being Taken for Granted.

I am writing this one one because I want to tell how it feels how to be taken for granted for every hour, every day, every, week, evey month or even years.

 What is taken for granted?

Taken for granted is something giving and giving without being appreciated and valued. Working and working without noticing by the people around you. Being kind and generous to help others.Being always ready to support someone in need. People are always expecting you to be always available to serve them without thanking you and recognising your effort. But when you needed them they go away because they knew that they can't get anything from you. They have already done to you.

Reasons why you're being for taken for granted.

There many reasons why you're taken for granted and you need to think about it. Pay attention and value yourself even more.

 1. You have a soft heart

Having a soft heart means you are pleasing, sweet and vulnerable. It means that you want evrebody to be please and you can't say no to them.

2. You are too innocent

 Being innocent is not bad but some people abused you because you are not aware of what is happening around you.

3. You don’t know how get angry

 Getting angry sometimes is not bad especially when it’s already too much. When a person perceive you as kind they will take the opportunity to get into you because you don’t know how to complain.

4. You are too nice to people

Being too nice means you prioritize other people. You're constantly saying sorry, you say yes immediately and you never tell what you wanted. You see people love being with you not because you are nice but they are getting too much from you.

Did You Know?

Did you know, that taken  for granted is like being martyr because you're always loving and caring without recognizing or acknowledging that you are doing all your effort to someone. They can’t even think that you’re a human too that needed love and attention to them. When you feel this way all your life   you’re going to question what is wrong with you, and you feel that you’re not enough and you will going to feel lonely and helpless. You’re a human too, you also feel tired and you have emotions that also get affected. Taking for granted is not healthy because you don't how to fight for yourself, you don't know how to show your emotions, you are being weak, you think no one can understand you that's why you choose to be taken for granted and abuse you by the people around you. This is not okay, you don't deserve this. If you could just aware how valuable you are not to other people but to your own self most especially to God. But don't worry there are still chance for you to get up.

How to get up from being taken for granted

 Because of your good personalities, people take advantage of you but you can still get up from this. If you feel that you are taken for granted for good and you wanted to be appreciated as well. Challenge yourself to speak when it is too much. Evaluate the people around you who truly cares for you then try to say no when you don’t mean it. Set up the give and take method. Then protect yourself and reset those boundaries.

Realizing your worth is also very important because when you do, you valued yourself. When you don’t know your worth you will end up pleasing everybody just to be in a group and just to feel accepted and you’re fooling yourself. Stand up you don’t deserve to be taken for granted. Don’t settle less for yourself. It’s better to love yourself alone than being with someone or friend who don’t know how to value your worth and to love you back.