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To see is to believe!
Hello readcash fam! Not active yesterday because of poor internet connection. How was your day yesterday lol its late to ask but still interested hehe because this article is all about my day yesterday. Yesterday we had a talk with my aunt who work as helpers for eleven years. There are many times that she had promised to us that she's going home for good but nothings happened. She wanted to be with her son because he was 5 years old back then when she decided to leave him for work and now he is in first year college. Her son always asking her mom to go home and to take care of him he's been jealous to others who have mom on their side. My aunt cried when he saw her son's message which is " **I wish I already have a work so that I can give you all my salary, I wanted you here mom. You're taking care of other family but why you can't take care of me? Its been years that you're not by my side. Mom I want to experience how it feels to have a mother who are cooking for my food everyday and washing my clothes and hugging you all night. Two to three days to be with you every year is not enough Mom. Please Mom when you go home in dec, I hope that is for good already. Please consider also my feelings everytime you leave."** While my aunt reading her son's message, she was crying, and I cried also for I felt his needs to be with her mom. I thought it was okay for him because he didn't say anything when his mom left for work. My aunt decided to stop her work for good next year. I hope this will happen na talaga. She had a lot of promise to her son already. For us who are hearing promises from aunt about her going home for good. We always say "To see is to believe anti!" I think its been 5 years already when she said to us thats she's going to quit on her job for good and nothings happened. We got to used with that promised already but we are all hoping that this year she will be going home with her bunso na. We also wanted her to get rest na rin kase nakatapos na naman na ang dalawa niyang anak sa kolehiyo at may maganda ng trabaho. I understand anti because she needed to work for her family and everyone of us doing everything for our family and I am very proud for her because she endured everything. She sacrifice being away to her family for many years just to give comfortable life to her sons and daughters. **Message to my Aunt: Its time to rest anti and be with your son. He needs you already!**
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Hndi kc madali ang maging isang ina.. nsa point ka na iniisip mo ung kinabukasan ng anak mo at sa gusto mo siyang makasama.. iniisip mo na magkasama nga kau pero hndi mo namn siya mapag aral,hndi mo kayang matustosan mga pangangailangan nya, so you have to sacrifice. Pero nakakaawa din ang anak na nangungulila sa ina, but actually both side nman mahirap ang ganyang sitwasyon,kaya ako I'm trying na makapag ipon makahanap ng mapagkakakitaan para hndi na ako umalis.. kc aukong makaramdam ung anak ko na nag iisa lang siya.
Aah oo bhe dva wala kpang anak noong nasa abroad ka?
Sometimes we can make promises that hard to do. I feel your aunt sissy kasi ganon din ako. Although wala akong anak na binubuhay pero ewan bakit pabalik balik ako sa abroad kahit ayaw ng parents ko noon. Believe me or not, once maranasan mo maging ofw, hahanap hanapin mo yon kahit nahihirapan ka sa work promise
Kase ate napamahal ka na sa trabaho mo ate
I relate to your auntie ,same for me my son also as me when I will go home, it's good to stay with your family together but the financial not enough, I hope someday I can go home for good too.
Sana nga po..pray po natin yan.
Aw. That is so sad. I'm sure it is hard for your aunt too to be away from her son and not be able to see and observe his growth but she chose to provide for the family. We can't really judge other people's decision. But maybe now as you have said, two of her children already has work. She can slow down and spend time with her son.
Oo sis sabik niya bunso niya makasama ang mama niya sana lang talaga matuloy na siyang uuwi for good..
Minsan ksi bunsoy kahit planado na ang lahat pero pgdting ng panahon di rin mtutupad ksi minsan ang mga dakilang ina mas iniisip pa ang kinabukasan ng mga anak. Hirap magiging nanay pero lahat natitiis.
Oo ate tama po kayo ate..
I understand Auntie, I used to work here in MM and sent my daughter to the province. Go ahead Auntie, do what's best. God bless.
Relate ka din sa kanya? Maraming ganyang mga nanay tintiis nilang magpakalayo para sa future ng anak nila.
I was a single mom for almost 4 years sis..Inuwi ko baby ko sa province mga 5 months pa lang sya.
Single mom? Dva ikakasal ka na sis?
Hopefully sis, single mom ako before mga almost 4 years then nameet ko si Kuya J ko...
Yan ang mahirap sa pagiging isang dakilang nanay..yong gustong-gusto mong piliin yong anak mo pero kilangan mong mag sacrifice para din sa future nila...
Oo tama, kaya ayokong magkipag relasyon pag hindi pa stable kase malaking problema pag walang perang ipon..
Awww, what if she really needs to work for her son's future? Well bata pa naman din kasi kaya di pa gaano alam how everything in the world works.
Miss na niya mama niya hehe kaya ganun siya maglambing sa mama niya. Hehe
Will I respect sissy kung wala pa sa plano yong pagpapakasal but congrats sissy kasi hindi biro yong umabot ng 12yrs..talo niyo pa yong mag asawa...hehehe..but ang importante naman niyan sissy ay masaya kayong pareho at mahal niyo ang isat-isa at sinusuportahan po kita dyan.heheheh..