Sometimes many people start depending on you and stop hard work. That's not their fault, it's your fault because you do everything for them. This makes them lazy. In this there is not only your loss but also of them. If you will be continuous to do that you will become tired by doing it regularly, and they will become lazy and dependent. So help them less. Focus more on your own chores and let them work hard and be successful. It's better for both parties.Be independent and let them be independent.