We can never be free from judgments-
We are born in this world and while we discover and travel the world, we were informed about the people and how they can change a person. As we met strangers and even though they become people we know, they will have an opinion about us. Every people will have a say of everything we do and that’s the sad thing living in this world. We can’t have a peaceful life because we will be bothered with the opinions of the other people. We keep on getting judgments, comments about our lives wherein fact they don’t have the rights to. But even though our friends, families will tell us to just ignore them, although we tried, we always try our best but we really can’t ignore their opinions, especially when we or you can point out your own flaws and you- yourself doesn’t appreciate who you are that’s when you will start thinking and obtaining all of the people’s judgments. And because you will always think that you are what people think you are, you tend to bend and fit on what they say about you and that’s when you’ll start to lose yourself.
Some people believe that ignoring and focusing in yourself can make your life better. I agree, because even though it is hard to do that, I know that we- you can get through it. We go through phases like discovering ourselves, building and molding ourselves for the better, and this one on focusing in our own and not minding what other people say. It is not an immediate outcome, it comes with process and throughout that process we can encounter and experience a lot of things, that will taught us lessons that we can make as our greatest weapon to fight the next journey we will take.
However, the truth is we can never be free from judgments, opinions are everywhere but doing and trying our best to eliminate those words and to try our best to focus in ourselves and just think that those people who judge you will have their places in the future. Let God do the work on teaching them a lesson and just mind and focus in your own business. And one thing is to make their judgments as your inspiration to work hard and prove to them that you are more than what they think you are. Work hard and let them see how different you are to what they say about you. And prove to them that those words don’t affect you and that they are just wasting their time judging you. Let them see the magnificent you and make them feel sorry for doing and saying foul words about you. Focus on building yourself and make the best version of yourself and show them what they have been messing.
The fact that living in this world means living with the judgments of the people and that we can never be free from those judgment makes your journey more challenging. But even though reality is like that, we can live in the moment and enjoy while it last because even though we got discourage about the opinions of the others at least we’ve experience beautiful things and enjoyed the moment which those judgmental people didn’t get to experienced because of focusing on how to drag you down. And look where it gets them. It will just lead them to their own karma and that is not what we want.
Just let those people judge you, don’t ever do things that pleases them because you are not born to make them like you, you are born to love yourself and bring out the best version of it. Don’t explain yourself to them and let them continue thinking that you are what they think you are because in the end it’s not your problem, it’s theirs.
Once again, let the God punish them from what they are doing because if God will be the one working and doing it for you, I can guarantee you that He will take care of everything and make you feel at ease and loved.
-Zai
