No matter how small your words are, they can change a person’s life-

No matter how small your words are, they can change a person’s life-

In this world, we sometimes don’t think of what we say, we talk what we feel and we just realize later on that a person was hurt and offended by the words and statements we just said. In cases like joking or just playing around, we sometimes forget that we have different level of sensitivity and that some people were offended and hurt by the jokes we thought was a joke. People will feel like they were just being played and because of our words they can do things that would shut them down from the judgmental world they thought they are in. They will not be affected emotionally but also physically; they would endure all of those words that causes them to break down and overthink over and over again. Our jokes and opinions were just ours but in life there will always be the negative side of every things, we can never avoid every flaw because it will not be learning if there are no mistakes and lessons. And by situation like this, people can learn to think before talking, people would be able to learn how to weigh their words before they express their thoughts, they can observe and watch their own mouth to keep the peacefulness and good relationship with others.

But on the other hand, our words can also change a person’s life in a good way. Nowadays, people are struggling, facing difficulties whether in their school, works or generally in their lives. People are facing a lot and different kinds of challenges that is extremely hard to overcome and sometimes some people can’t continue for some were already in the verge of giving up, some are exhausted, others are lost and hopeless. And this is where the small gestures and encouraging words comes in, we are all exhausted by the challenges but if we can use our voice to encourage, to lift up each other people will have hope and start to stand up and fight again. We can use our selves to catch each other whenever we fall. Whenever we feel tired let yourself be the resting place of the other person. No matter how simple your words it can help a person see a blink of a light in their dark world that maybe in the future the darkness would be lighten and hope would cover around the corner of her/his world. Approaching those struggling people, can be their way to have hope, you can be the way for them to stand up and fight for themselves. Things would not be easy but in this simple and small works we do, we can change a person’s life. We can give them hope and let them know that they are not alone in their journey, that they are not the only one who are struggling and facing those hardship, that they are not alone feeling the exhaustion, tiredness and burn out. Giving up is a choice but that is not the best option. We were born to learn and not give up, we face those trials because there are things we need to learn and discover and a person should undergo heartbreaks, tiredness, hardship so that we can be useful not just for the others but also for ourselves. God will allow you and me to go through brokenness, failures, mistakes so that He can even use us, even more.

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-Zai