Being single is not a bad thing in fact this is your chance to make the best version of yourself-
A lot of people nowadays are so engaged into relationships and sometimes they complain on not having one. Adults, especially the teenagers are extremely focused on having boyfriend or girlfriend. They think of it as an essential thing that a person should have and experienced. They tend to put so much effort on investing time in it wherein fact there are more important things to focus on. They tend to forget that there’s so much more to life than being stuck on fantasizing love.
Some people complain about being single, and compare themselves to people or children who already have partners in their life. But not knowing that being single is the BEST thing you could ever have. It is the BEST phase a person may experience. It is an opportunity that gives you freedom on making yourself better, a freedom to decide for yourself, a freedom to explore and know more about yourself and make memories with yourself. It gives you the time to become someone you want to be. It is the way that mold you into the best version of yourself.
In this stage of being single in life, you’ll encounter a lot of changes with yourself. You might notice yourself growing to become more mature and have wide understanding in life. You might see the things you didn’t saw before and that things made you understand the true essence of having yourself. It may not be easy to go through phases like failing, feeling lonely, and feeling unworthy but at the end you’ll always understand and realize things that happened to you. Maybe it is tiring on waiting when will yours arrived but one thing is for sure, it will be worth it. And that will make you as a strong person with perseverance and determination.
Being single is not a bad thing, really…. I’ve come to realize that God still not give you the one because He is preparing him to you and He is molding you and making you the very best. He is still taking His time and behind the curtains He is preparing something big that you, yourself didn’t expect to have. That’s why even though it is hard to wait, just wait for the reason that in the end, everything will be worth the wait. Because if God was the one who made the move, I’m telling you it is unexpectable and He will make it the very best. And more beautiful than you expected.
