How to behave in the worst situation.

In our regular life we all often face some difficult situations. Some difficult situations become worse for us sometimes. After falling on a difficulty we forget our consciousness and it hampers us a lot. If we can control ourselves in any adverse situation and hold on to our consciousness we can solve or improve any difficult situation. There are some philosophical techniques to come out of a bad situation and I will discuss these. 

Long time ago I read a book by Dale Carnegie. Dale Carnegie was a famous writer and philosopher. In that book I learned some techniques and till now I apply these in my regular life. One of these techniques is about the behaviour of a person in a bad situation. 

Do you know what can happen in these bad situations? When a person falls into a bad situation and can't find any solution he may fall into depression. And we all know how harmful depression is! Depression can kill a person. Even we have seen many cases like this where people commit suicide after fall into adverse situation in their regular life. Adverse situations are like loss in business, failure in examination, separation in relationship, etc. After facing these problems people become unconscious and make wrong decisions. I want to say that some basic knowledge and beliefs can make our life more peaceful and will keep ourselves away from Making these kinds of wrong decisions. So Let's start. 

Confess the worst thing can happen and after confessing try to improve the worst. 

This is not my own opinion actually. This is the opinion of Dale Carnegie. At the beginning of my article I mentioned that I have read a book by Dale Carnegie. Dale Carnegie advised that when you are in a bad situation then confess what worst can happen. If you can confess the worst then you can not become depressed anymore. I have applied this many times in my own life. And I always get positive consequences. 

Confessing the worst things can happen is not an easy task. But if you can do it once you will understand how beneficial it is. I want to ask, why so serious? Nothing is more valuable than our life. So give importance to your own life and forget all the problems. A man can restart from any adverse situation. 

If i tell you to choose one things from the two… 

1. Depression, suicide after facing worst situation. 

2. Or restart from the worst situation. 

I want to say Again that nothing is more valuable than a life. If anybody asks me what I will go for. I will definitely reply that I will go for the second one. I am a positivist and always want to be positive. What will be your choice? 

Now another thing needs to be mentioned here. Past is always the past. Nothing can take the past back. Scientists tried to make time machines and tried to time travel. But it remains impossible. So it is sure that no one can change the past. 

Things that already happened can not be changed. But those things which are going to happen in the future can be changed by your wish and consciousness. According to Dale Carnegie we need to focus on those things that are going to happen in the future rather than focusing on things that have already happened. If we can confess the worst consequences then we can easily focus on our future. Thinking about the past can only make you much more depressed. Nothing else. 

Suppose a person has five industries. I mean he is the owner of these. He lives a luxurious life on the income coming from these industries. Suddenly three of his industries went to loss and he needs to make these industries off. Now he has two options. Number one, he can restart from the two industries he still has. Option two is he can be depressed after losing the tree industries. If he chooses the first option he can keep the other two industries. But if he chooses the second option he will lose the remaining two industries. Here Professor Dale Carnegie advised us to choose the first option. It will give you back everything. 

When someone go through bad times in his life he feels like he is in the Ocean without anything. He depressed. And thinking about the past decreases his energy. If you think how you came here and regret for the past while you are in the deep Ocean without trying to get rid of then you will definitely sank. That happens in our life too. We sank in depression and depression kills us. We all need to learn from it and apply it in our life so that our life become more beautiful and peaceful.

Consciousness. 

People become unconscious when they face any danger. It is a natural process. But those who can control this natural process and can stay cool and conscious at the time of danger can change the situation. Most of the cases people lost their consciousness after facing a bad situation. And they made wrong decisions unconsciously. 

Now I will say if people can confess the worst consequences and try to improve the worst consequences with consciousness then there is a possibility to overcome the worst situation or diminish the losses. So at the end i want to say, stay calm and love your life.

Thanks for reading my article. 

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