In Patience Fruits Kindness
Patience is evidence of one's humility in holding the soul from despair, anger, and sadness. If we are given a trial by Allah, it could be a matter from Allah for our good. Because the end of patience is a big victory that we will get. Even the angels were ready to greet and greet them.
Patience is supposed to be owned by every human being, imagine if in the heart of a wife there is no patience. Instead of giving mental support to a husband who is experiencing a downturn, it is possible that the wife actually leaves her husband who is in a slump. Of course there will be big problems if the heart does not have patience.
Regarding this attitude of patience. With patience, the suffocating grief will feel airy. In addition, Allah also says that humans ask for His help with patience and prayer. It is clear that patience has an extraordinary meaning, even being able to bring help from Allah SWT. When his servant has a problem that is so heavy, Allah will only tell his servant to be patient and pray, and return all affairs to Him alone.
Patience is not just a matter of being able to forgive or not, because every mouth can say 'I forgive you' but in the heart no one knows. And people who are patient will certainly forgive, although in the process of forgiving it is sometimes applied in its own way, such as temporarily going away from the environment or people who make their hearts hurt. It's not that he's angry or resentful, but that it's to quell his anger in that way that he tries to be patient and avoid fighting.
Patience is a part of faith and Islam is like a head on a body, because there is no life for a body without a head, therefore faith will not exist without patience.