Do we need to get hurt?
Heartbreak is painful. Realizing what has been lived so far ended in vain.
However, after crying and all the suffering that is felt, a person will feel better. He can start a new life. Although he may still feel heartbroken, he is starting to understand how to handle his feelings and realizes that it has taught him a valuable lesson. Sometimes people even think it takes a broken heart to learn how to get through all that pain.
Yaapz, a broken heart is necessary in one's life because a broken heart is like a storm that can destroy the bad to bring out the best. It's like sweeping away the painful things and providing you with enough strength to endure the storm.
Heartbreak also allows you to measure your strength to face life's difficulties. It will make you think much more powerfully than you think.
There is a saying that goes, 'What doesn't kill you makes you stronger'. Heartbreak does make you stronger. It also lets you know that the pain you are feeling is something that can free you from the fear of being hurt again in the future.
After everything you've been through, life isn't just about happiness. But also a journey with ups and downs. The sooner you find out, the better prepared you will be for the bad. Heartbreak brings you to a phase where you can find out your own strengths.
Heartbreak gives you time to reflect on your life. Look back at the choices you made and what the results were. You may come across many things that might have seemed insignificant before, but now they are what define you.
In life, you don't always need roses, but sometimes thorns too. You may have been through the worst phase and need time to heal yourself.
After a broken heart, you can really get to know another side of yourself that you didn't even know yourself. That you are strong enough to get through it and will continue to be strong in the face of pain in the future.
Heartbreak makes you more sensitive to other people. Knowing how it feels to be hurt will make you realize that if you do that to someone else, then you can hurt someone else. Because of that, you can become a better person. So don't be afraid to be heartbroken anymore.
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