Until when? Until it's done.

My husband and I are really meant to be. Not because of a typical similarities but because of the fact that we both facing a problem from our very own family 😂 I told him earlier that we are really meant to be because we are both experiencing stress because of family problem.

Earlier I posted in noise.cash that we will be going my in-laws house. Last Wednesday is the birthday of my father in-law and we didn't go because my husband has work that time so we decided to visit there now which is my husbands day off. We went there 10:00 AM and we are not expecting on the people live there because we know the true situation there. Last year when my husband lost his job , we stayed there for 5 months because my husband was not comfortable living here at our house because he has no job so we decided to stay there. I agree to him that time because he's with me but if we will live there and he's not there I will not said yes because of the stressful environment there. If you still remember my article way back you will knew what I am talking about.

So we arrived there at my in-laws house. My mother's in-law who is my husband's stepmother was sleeping at the long chair in Sala and she looks like beggar in her clothes. Her body stinks because of dirt. Why I said she was like beggar? Because she was so dirty and didn't take a bath for a couple of days. Her toenail is long and dirty and her hair is to dry and messy. Maybe you will asked why she's like that? It is because my father in-law and my mother inlaw is the only living in the house and they are not in good terms. They always fight when someone is meddling to one another. I am in pity about my mother inlaw situation but I don't know where to stand because we have also problem here in the house and as an eldest among my siblings I should take the responsibility for our family problem.

There house is full of dust as well as there ceiling. They don't have food in the table because all of the utensil are in the room because my mother inlaw will all kept the things she see and hide it in her room. My father in-law is cooking in the room also. I want to clean the house earlier but there's no electricity and it was so hot and we have no choice but to stay outside the house because there's no electricity.

His two siblings are living beside my in-laws house and we are expecting that these two will help my inlaws in terms of giving food or just simply reminding them to take proper hygiene but it's seems they dont even care at all. That's also one of my husbands issues with his siblings because they didn't care for thier parents. When we were still there , my in-laws house are clean and they eat a decent food because I am the one who will prepare for it but last November there's an emergency that happened in our house, it is when my mother leave the house and there's no other people who will take good care of my niece because my sister is working. So we go here at our house and leave my in-laws house. After that my husband was hired on the company where my sister is working. My sister do a way to make my husband hired because I am the one who will take good care on her daughter.

We eat at his brother house because there's no food available in my in-laws house. After we eat we started to talk about the issues regarding the environment there because they are fighting for the land. They have an issue regarding the land that they inherit from thier father. So his father divided the land into four because they are five and four of them is boys. The house of my in-laws is my husband's house also but because his eldest brother has no capability to build his own house they are living in my in-laws house even if he has some land.

His eldest brother and my father in-law is not in good terms also. They always fight that makes us stress everytime we heard thier voice fighting. They are always like that , not agreeing to each other and end up fighting always. That's also the reason why I don't want to live there even if I pity my in-laws because I am the one who will be stress everyday.

My husband and his brother had a discussion also because his brother wants to clarify thing and ask thier father about thier farm because there are humor spreading that thier father will sell thier farm. My husband look for my father in-law but he can't find it and can't able to clarify things because we need to go home.

We arrived at our house by 5:30 PM and I saw my father drinking alcohol and as usual he will do his drama when drunk. I talk to him frankly and said to him that dont drink alcohol if he will just making drama. He got mad at me and he said I am like my mother who always done it to him and he started to talk about so many things. I talk to him frankly again and said what's on my mind and told him don't ever compared me to my mother. My head started to ache because of stress and I don't know if I will still manage this.

My husband joke at me saying he will buy 6 pieces of biogesic for our headaches and stress. I just laugh at him and sigh. He asked me if when will this problem put to an end. To be honest , I really don't know. All I know is that we will do my best to be strong and calm in all the problems that we will be facing. I also believe that all this problem has an end and God will blessed us for being strong.