TOTGA-The one that God allowed.

I have 6 ex boyfriends before Ive met my husband and back then I have also a standard when it comes on dating a guy. I am attracted to smart guys. As I mentioned on a comment section of Hanzell article I am attracted to nerds, I dont know why 😅 I love a silent type guy and a mysterious type one and when they started to speak I love to see expressing thier feelings through their words.

When I was in college , I was 16 years old that time. I had my first boyfriend. He was studying BS in Marine Transportation in other university on our province. The second one was student of Criminology in the same school but diffrent campus. The third one was my classmate and I also commented our story to Jeaneth's article recently 😄 As you noticed they are all studying that time as I am not dating a guy that wasnt studying because I am afraid to what people would said. I experienced that on High School , someone asked me " What's the course of your boyfriend ? " I didnt answer that question and changed the topic because I am shy that my boyfriend was not studying.

After I graduated college I went to Manila to apply for a job. From there I met my 4th boyfriend. He was working too in Manila but he was also graduated in the same university that I graduated. We broke up because he cheated on me. The fifth one was my High School batchmate. I met him during his utility time before his apprenticeship. I remember I am always going in the Ermita to meet him during my rest day haha. He breake up without a reason. That's the most dramatic break up I've ever experienced but I didnt write it here because the article will be long. But if you want to know more about it I can make another article haha. The 6th one was an IT graduated but he helping her Aunt on their family business which is construction firm. We also broke up and I also commented the reason of our break up on Jeaneth article recently.

After those six failed relationship. I asked myself if there's a problem with me. I always ended up alone. I wasted my life. I experienced to be a mistress and afraid of commitment until I met my husband.

I met him unexpectedly. I already wrote an article about how we've met. When he confessed a love to me, I think twice because he was a construction worker. He didnt finished his education. He only graduated elementary and study ALS ( Alternative Learning System) . He told me the reason why he didnt finished his study because at the very young age his father wants him to help in the farm. After he finished the ALS he also tried to study college but he failed the entrance exam in PUP San Juan. After that he works as a contruction worker in Manila.

I am not so sure that time if I will said yes to him because of that but still love wins. It was April 22 2017 , Saturday we attended a worship service. And from the time I already made up my mind to said yes to him. It is because of the preached of the pastor during the worship service.

He said " Parents , dont teach your children to entairtain a guy just because of their status in life, instead teach them on how to know the true intention of the guy. He also added " Status in life is just a physical aspect when it comes to relation ship. What important is that the relationship itself. He also said a lot of words but I didnt remember it all of them.

The night after the worship service. I already said I love you to him. I know my parents was not so happy with my decision. I feel that especially my mother, she want me to marry a guy that is financially stable but I always think that their views is not important because whats important is the two of us.

We've been together for two years. Our relationship was good and from the time I met him he taught me a lot of things. He's a good influence to me. He's a godly man that's why I know he's responsible enough on his family.

I choose him not because of my standards. I choose him because he was the one that God allowed.

When I was a teen I prayed to God that I want a guy who was god fearing and Godly man. There was none on my 6th ex boyfriends who was religious and God fearing because I am focusing on my standards not knowing that I prayed differently to the Lord.

After all the pain the I felt in the past, Lord still blessed me and give the man of my prayers. He may not be those professional ex boyfriend in the past but he has one thing that he can be proud of. He has God. And that's the reason why I love him.