Rest in peace Ateng.

March 15, 2023

5:25 PM

Last night we went home from the hospital and accept the fact that my mother inlaw will take a long time rest. It was 7:00 PM when we reached the house. The relatives are waiting for her and reminiscing the old times. It was 7:28 PM when I fed her via NGT and I diluted some medicine. After that me and my husband go to sleep as we are really tired and we let one of my brother in-law be with Ateng. Since he didn't know how to do feeding on NGT he will woke me up at 11:00 PM for the feeding.

It's 11:00 PM when they woke me up. I check the tube if it's on my in-laws intestine and but while pumping it instead of giving the sign which is the vibration on the stomach there's a brown liquid came out on the tube. We decided not to feed her because I'm not sure if she's still okay.

I went to the room again and sleep but after a few minutes my brother in-law woke me up again because the breathing of my mother inlaw became slow. I woke up my husband and told me what's happening. When her son told her to take some rest she already end her journey.

They already called the funeral service and I went to sleep again while doing the embalming.

This morning her wake were home here. We started to buy some food, coffee and all the need for the wake. I am the one whos in charge in handling the money for expenses. It's my first time to experience this and I'm overwhelmed because there's a lot of relatives who helping us with this.