Reasons why married couples end up separated.

Why do people promised to each other that they will be together forever but ended up giving up the relationship? You know, after long years of marriage they will choose to separate their ways and the most affected on their separation is the children. I know every relationship has different story to tell that's why I don't want to judge couple who choose to end up thier marriage but its just saddens me especially the couple that I know who has strong relationship and then finding out they are already separate.

I have so many break up or separated issues I witnessed or knew this year and like what I said it saddens me and I was shocked. The reason why they became separated has different reasons too.

Here are some of the reason why couple choose to end up their marriage according to the people I knew who experience this.

Third party.

Maybe this is the main reason why married couple separated. For some couple the second chances was given especially when they try to save the relationship and think about their children. They believe that the one who cheat will learned their lesson and never repeat it again but some are not. You know, you have been given a lot of chances but you wasted it and ended up that your partner already gave up on you. Its applicable for both man and woman as they can both do cheating.

Financial problem.

This is also a reason why married couple separated. Just this weekend my mom told me that our neighborhood are now separated and the reason is financial problem. The man has no regular job and they have two children. Maybe the girl felt so tired on how to survive everyday and decided to leave her family. It's just so sad because you know for me being married couple mean helping each other and be there on the ups and downs of life. I knew this couple as a sweet couple and I feel so sorry for the boy because he wants to commit suicide.

Fall out of love.

This is not the same on the third party but it is happening in real life. Imagine you woke up one day and you fall out of love on your partner. Because of that thing you became cold and then you started fighting and end up separated.

Family issues.

It is all about the inlaws or other family members. It's happening when the family of your partner don't want you for their child. It's also happening in reality as I knew some of the couple separated because the guy is Mamas boy.

Vices.

Being an alcoholic, drug addict and gambling thingy. It's like connected to financial but the main reason here is the vices like you loss all the money and have dept because of vices.

Here are just a few reason why married couple end up being separated. If you have something to add you can share it on the comment section ☺️