If you want to die then drink it. ***If you want to die , then drink that pesticide infront of me. C'mon Papa. Drink it!*** That's that word I said to my father when I found out that he will going to drink that pesticide. I was walking on my way home when I saw my younger sister running going to me and she's crying. He said our father was holding a pesticide and he's inside the room and they didn't know what to do. I run going to our house and knock on the door and talk to my father. I said those words that I mentioned above and after that he cried a lot and he gave the pesticide to me. He was so depressed that time because he lost his job and then my mother feel him that he was an irresponsible head of the family. I am third year High School that time , he back to our home hodling a black bag and told my mother that he lost his job. He was a taxi driver and something happened on the taxi and need to fixed it but the operator didn't tell my father when is the time that the taxi will fix. My mother reacted so badly and told my father how come we will survive if my father has no job. Because of that incident thier fight became often to the point that my mother leave that house and said she will be the one who will find a job if my father don't want to find one. We are so used with that action of my mother as she always did it everytime they had a problem or argument. My father is not a bad guy, infact I love him more than anyone else until now that I already have a family. As a said on my old articles back then , he was my first love and also my bestfriend. He's a responsible man and he can do all things just for his family. It's just that my mother was so talkative and judgemental and he always blame my father instead of lifting him up like what the other married couples did. And that's also one of the reason why I don't want to be like my mother, it is because I witnessed how my father sacrifice a lot because of her. When my father stayed here in the province that time , he tried different jobs here. He tried to work in the rice field even if he's not familiar on that job. I remember when he got a wounds because he didn't know how to use the lingkaw very well. Lingkaw is the device use in rice field to cut the rice plant. His work in the rice field became good and because of that we had our rice for everyday food. He also tried to catch some fish in the river. He made his own version of fish net and we are so glad everytime he caught some fish. He also experienced to work on construction as a laborer. There's a house under construction near our place that time and he asked the owner if he can work as an extra there to have an income that can sustain our daily living. I saw in his eyes that time that he was having a hard time doing it because he's a mechanic and a taxi driver and he didn't know to work as a laborer. Originally he was a chief mechanic but he had an accident way back. He was hit by the 10 wheeler truck of San Miguel and because of that he was not allowed to carry heavy equipment that's why he decided to be a taxi driver. Those moments were our tough times but that was also the moments that I proved that my father loves us and he will never leave us no matter what happened unlike my mother who leave and choose to escape what's happening to our family. We were happy on those times even if we only eat chicharon and papaya almost everyday and the fish that my father caught. Yes , we have financial problem that time but the love keep us strong and encourage each other to look forward positively in life. Those memories are still fresh to my life as I don't want to forget it. Those moments were the moments that I will forever keep in my heart. As of this moment my father still working because he choose to and he save his salary in his DIY coinbank and he said once he retired he will build a small business in front of our house. If I am the one who will choose I want him to stop but he said he will just get bored on the house. He said he will retired once my son go to school and he's the one who will look after him. Now he was working as a mechanic in Cabanatuan with a low compensation because he said he can't demand anymore because he's already a senior citizen. We just allowed him because that's what he wants. Year 2015 he already stopped working because the taxi drivers that time has no large income anymore because of grab then he go to province for good because we my other siblings have jobs too and we can support thier needs but after a couple of months he decided to work again until now. `Authors note: Sorry for being so dramatic today. I don't know what happened to my mood as I feel that I am so gloomy since early this morning.`
23 comments
awwwwwwww...I cried on the last part really..our fathers are a real definition of what a superhero is..he'll do everything for us...and like you my father will be the first man I ever love aside from my ex aiggooooo
Yep , sya din naging standards ko sa pagpili ng magiging katuwang ko sa buhay hehe
same kaya nga wala akong partner eh..mataas kasi qualities nang papa ko...ack
Siguro ganon talaga tayong mga daughter no? Yun nagiging basehan
iba kasi tanaw natin sa mga ama natin yun bang complete package na sa tingin mo kaya minsan di mo mahanap sa iba
Hindi man din lahat Kasi diba may mga tatay na Hindi Naman nagpapakatatay
true mommy meron talaga..example jan yung ama nang anak koπ
Yays
Grabe pala pinagdaan niyo sis Lalo na si papa mo. Iba talaga mag Mahal Ang magulang kahit na mahirap kakayanin para sa mga anak,iniimagine ko din si papa noon ng nag laborer siya sa pag gawa Ng bahay kahit di Rin siya marunong go lang Kasi Wala pa silang trabaho dati. Haysst Kung Sana eh mayayaman lang Tayo.
Pwede naman na sya magretired kaso mabobored lang daw sya sa bahay.
Nung makita ko title, kala ko fiction story. But as I read the article, oh so it's your own story.. But at hndi nya tinuloy.. . Kasama nyo pb papa mo now sa bahay nyo or separate kayo mag asawa?
Sabi ko inumin nya sa harap ko e. Bigla nalang syang umiyak. Dito padin kami nakatira sa bahay namin. Diba nga Wala na dito si Mama ko. Isa padin yung sa iniisip ko Kasi nga may bahay na kami sa Lugar ng asawa ko kaso wala man gusto tumira sa bahay namin nato na mga kapatid ko. Iniisip ko Sino makakasama ni papa dito kapag Wala nako. Kahit sabihin nyang okay Lang sya mag Isa. Ako Hindi ako okay na ganon sitwasyon nya Kaya Ang gulo padin nung future namin. Diko Alam Kung papano gagawin.
It's okay to be dramatic, ms. Yen. Just let all the feelings out. We are always here to listen.
Thanks sis.
Is it your real story? . Painful it is to see or hears your loved one attempting to cheat death. But you are the angel in the scene, for you contrast the devil's desire..
Yes real story to.
Kudos to your fader momsh yen.. despite being almost alone to raise you all, he didn't give up with his nagger wife who almost didn't do nothing but unsupportive to your father.. may he be blessed with good health
Thank you Z. Ngayon Malaya na sya Kay Mama. Netong November last year lang
As I read your article I am bit sad and got reminded of how my father sacrifices for the family too. His hardships comes rushing in my mind. Your blessed to have him. God bless him and the whole family.
Thank you sis.
Madiskarti din Papa mo madam ano, pero bat kasi ganon ang Mom mo, sana manlang econsole manlang nya, kaso binungangaan oa ata. Yan din ba ang reason kaya gumanon si mother mo π.
To be honest Hindi ko Alam. Siguro may taglay lang talaga nanay ko. Kung Alam mo Lang ayaw. Ayaw ko isulat dito kasi parang pambabastos nadin sa kanya. PM ko sa TG
Ganyan ang mga tatay natin madiskarte talaga cla.. minsan tahimik lang kapag nagkakaproblema sa hanapbuhay pero kinakaya din