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If there's something you need to fear the most is regret. Past few days Ryan Bang and Yeng Constantino become trending because of thier experience in the past. There's a segment in showtime wherein Yeng said that if people will leave it so easy to say goodbye and then he mentioned Ryan Bang and because of that madlang people got curious. At first they thought that Yeng wrote the song Chinito because of Ryan but then she explained that it's not because of him but he wrote a song B.A.B.A.Y and her inspiration was Ryan. Then Ryan start to explain his side on the madlang people. He said he courted Yeng and he tried to pursue her. He always gave her coffee and also go on a date with him but after a couple of week he stop pursuing him because he belittle his self. That time Yeng is famous already and he's not. I mean like he said he went to the concert of Yeng but no one knew him. There's also an incident that he was there during the family dinner of Yeng family and as much as he want to pay the bill he can't because he has no money. That time he thought he's not for Yeng then he stop courting her without a word or informing Yeng about it. This was happened last 2012 and Yeng said she felt awkwardness already. From the time that Ryan stop giving her coffee she asked herself why but he never asked Ryan then they both hanging from what happened. Then just now it seems like they got the closure that they deserve also Ryan who felt that way before. Ryan has lot of what ifs but it's too late because Yeng is already married with someone but there's a lot of lesson from thier experience. ***Here are some lesson that I learned on thier experience.*** ***There a different version of truth based on our own perspective.*** When Ryan Bang said all of his side then Yeng finally understand where Ryan Bang is coming from. When Yeng explained her side then Ryan Bang understand about it too. I can also add a lesson which is the ***clarification is a must.*** In life , you know there s a lot of Akala ko Kasi then because of that phrase people misunderstood things just because they thought things are like that where in fact its not. Like when Ryan Bang said I thought you didn't like me. I thought you have many suitors. ***If you love someone you need to learn how to fight for that love if you don't want to regret in the end.*** Ryan has lot of what ifs and he belittle his self and because of that he stopped pursuing Yeng. Yeah , you can't blame Ryan for that because Yeng is famous and he's not that time but you know , there's still a lot of girl who didn't look on your status and bank account. There's a lot of girl who still looking at the kindness and goodness of your heart. Like me char 🤣 If you know our love story then you will know what I mean. I am not famous or rich but with my husband point of view before he has a question to himself. Construction worker lang ako , grade 6 lang natapos ko..magustuhan kaya ako nito. But he overcome that thinking and courted me. And now we are happily married. ***Communication*** Diba? If they just talk and clear things out maybe they end up together. If only they sit down and talk things and able to speak up the side of each other then maybe they don't have in a situation like that. You know it's painful to fight and be rejected but it's more painful to stop then eventually you will know that someone you love has a feelings for you but you give up. Sometimes people has a misunderstanding in a definition of the true courage. Sometime people said that true courage is when you're not afraid of something but the truth is true courage is doing something even if you're afraid. There's are things in life that we visualize that we don't have hopes and when can't do it like how Ryan felt before. But if Ryan has the courage to do things before then maybe he find the everlasting happiness he really wanted with Yeng. If there's one thing you need to fear most is regret. To fail and to be rejected is already an answer. If you have a question of what if and if only , those will be an eternal questions that has no answer and the sad part is that you will never ever know the answer for the rest of your life.
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Lagi ko nakikita sa fb to, isa lang natutunan ko sakanila. Take risk lagi kasi we don't know what the results are lalo na if di tayo magtake risk
Totoo Yun pero depende din sa circumstances minsan
Sa story nila talaga napatunayan na, If you love someone, you should know how to take a risk." Kasi nga, based sa nangyari, naging mahina din si Ryan sa point na sumuko siya kasi maraming naging what ifs. Ang sad nung ending nila ano. Yun nga, nasa huli din talga ang pagsisisi.
Totoo. Nasaktan din ako for him
I understand both side of them Sis, sadyang nagkulang sila sa communication. Di ko din masisisi si Ryan kung inakala niya na may ibang gusto si Yeng kasi uso din yan sa ibang babae e, multiple suitors haha na misinterpret lang pala niya
Kaya nga. Circumstances din
Napanood ko to by Jeaneth's recommendation. Nakakapanghinayang noh. Kung sana nag reach out sila sa isa't isa at naag usapan yun bawat side nila, eh di sana sila na ngayon ang mag asawa.. Yeng Bang sabi ni Vice ganda, hahaha!
Oo nga mommy pero Wala e 😂
Yes miss yen I agree. I agree dapat may clarifications talaga para malaman each one of their side. Dapat you will be brave. Dapat harapin at maging open up sa isa't isa para ma clarify lahat. Kasi pag yung mind mo halos what ifs. Yun talaga mag papawala ng hope sayo at it will down your confidence. Nagulat ako nito miss yen. My past pala si Ryan Bang at Yeng. Ngayon ko lang nalaman.
Same hehe. Diko din alam na may ganon
I seen that thrend hehe. Tama masakit talaga nga kasi yun, basta wala me masabi may regrets din kasi ako hahaha.
We all have regrets. Lahat tayo may what ifs and if only hehe
Pero ate mas okay na yon kasi masaya na sila sa buhay nila ahha. Regret na kung regret ate pero sad to say that parte lang siya ng past haha. Kung siguro ate nagparamdam si yan Bang, siguro wala tayong kakantahin na 'Ikaw' ahhaha
May point ka dun hehehe. Everything happens for a reason padin.
I am absolutely agree sa lahat ng sinabi mo. And sabi nga, every story has a side story. Hindi pwedeng nakafocus lang tayo sa story talaga, kasi bawat bida may kanya-kanya din istorya, katulad ni Ryan. Akala nya wala syang pag-asa kay Yeng pero nung nagsalita na din si Yeng dun nya nalaman na may pag-asa pala sya. Si Yeng din nagtaka sya bat biglang tumigil si Ryan sa panliligaw yun pala may reason din si Ryan kung bat bigla syang di na nagparamdam. Communication is really important. Its a must para maiwasan ang kahit anong misunderstanding.
True hehe. Haba ng comment
Haba nga eh. Gawan ko nga yan article. 😂
Nabasa ko na nga hahaha
I know na sayangan din sila pareho sa nangyari sa kanila.. nakita ko talaga yung sakit sa mga mata ni ryan ...at nung nalaman ko na xia pala ang nasa likod nang kantang B.A.B.A.Y aguyyyyy naman lang
Kaya nga e. Akala nya parang dedma lang si yeng pero ayun pala may impact Yung pa ghost nya
ang daming what ifs about don kina ryan and yeng kasi ang dami ding possibilities if ever hindi nag stop si ryan. It serves as lessons to others narin. Well, they're both successful narin namn