Just because two people didn't end up together doesn't mean it was a relationship.
For new leaves to be able to grow , old leaves must fall.
In order to find something that will last, you need to learn how to wait and not rush anything.
It's about letting go. It's about setting people free.
It's about finding freedom in forgiveness.
All of this things aren't really successful if you do it on your own.
That's why you need to leave it to God and surrender it to God because only He can make broken things beautiful again.
Just because two people didn't end up together doesn't mean it was a failed relationship.
We can also choose to see it in a way that wow I got the privilege of knowing and loving and learning from this person if it was just a short time.
We can choose gratitude over bitterness.
We can choose joy over pain.
We can choose love and we can choose forgiveness.
And just because you're not gonna continue that season to come doesn't mean to was a failed one.
From here on i will just to remember the good times because you are still worth that.
At ang huling pangako na maibibigay sa ating dalawa ay walang sisihan.
Maybe you're familiar with this lines. It is from moira in her interview with tito boy abunda. I didn't know if it is the meaning of her song paubaya but one thing is for sure this lines really hit me and i all agree with every line of it.
In order to start something new we need to let go of the past. You can never start a new chapter if we always look on a previous chapter of your life. In order to start a something new you need to look forward and stop holding on to something that has already ended. Sometimes it's all about on how to wait patiently. It is all about thinking the phrase don't settle for less. It is all about waiting for the perfect timing and waiting for the right time.
I know it hurts when things happened like goodbyes. I know it hurts if we let people will go. It's painful when you already planned your life with him and you seemed so sure that he is the right one for you but it didn't happened. There are things in life that is happening and we didn't expect it.
Sometimes we even question God why are those things happened. But on those times that we question Him you also find the answer. He will also the one who will answer your questions and even help you to understand and accept that sometimes things happened and there's a purpose behind it. Just like what my life verse said on john 13:7, we can't understand now what he's doing not in the right time we will. And you know sometimes you will be thankful at those things happen and you even thanks God why you feel those heartbreaks. He has a better plan for you always look forward to that.
You know sometimes people only enter in our life to give us lesson. People will come to our life and we will love them and it's part of the journey and we can learn a lesson from it. Maybe those relationship brought us on the way that we can be matured and better. Sometimes it is also a turning point to realize something.
Losing someone is hard but like what moira said we can turn things and a good way. Instead of being bitter, instead of being pain why no try to forgive and set our hearts to those kind of thoughts.
Just my random thoughts. I made this one via google voice typing. Ehe!
Kahit pa sabihin talaga na if you choose someone choose the best, di talaga natin malalaman sa present kung sino ang magloloko in the future, kasi kung titingnan mo yung ibang couple for us perfect na sila but the thing is wala din talagang kasiguraduhan ang mga bagay2 hihih, change talaga yung constant dito sa mundo.