Choose life.

Chen , I'm pregnant. Can you help me to remove this baby on my womb? It can ruin my future.

This is the word that I heard to Mia when she talks to me over the phone. I was so shocked hearing it and didn't able to process it on my head as it is too serious. To be honest I have no idea why she needs to do that or I can't imagine that she can do it on her own flesh and blood.

We separated our ways when we finished our college but we remain as friends and meet once a once or twice a year. For those years that we are not together I didn't witnessed how her personality changed from being a province girl to liberated one. I also didn't know the men who entered in her life when I am not with her.

Her scheduled seems so busy as she was working as a call center agent and on graveyard shift always. We barely contact each other because our schedule is opposite but one time I received a call coming from her. She told me that she has a problem and she badly needed my help. I asked her if whats her problem and she said she was pregnant. I even told her if she's serious with her words.

Her tone of voice because low and sad and she told me that real reason why she need to remove the baby in her womb. She didn't knew the real identity of the man he met and the father of her baby. I was confused that time, why she make love with someone he didn't know? Then I knew the answer . She was drunk!

Her friends invited her to a party and he met that guy. He just only know the name of the guy , thats it. She even not so sure if the name of the guy is real or just faking it. She was drunk and didn't control herself. She was drunk and surrendered herself to a guy that he didn't even know. What was that? Honestly , I am having a headache while listening to her story.

She didn't know what happened because she was drunk and the father of her baby already leave without knowing that there's a baby starting to form inside her. She admitted that she was so irresponsible and she was scared on the upcoming scenarios if someone knew that she was pregnant and knew that she didn't know the father of her baby.

Since she don't want to tell her friends about that she choose to be silent and hide her situation. She simply asking her friends about the guy and he found out that the guy has a family already. After knowing it she made up her mind and make an abortion just to end his problem.

I told her that removing the baby in her womb is not the right solution for her problem because it is a mortal sin and she will become a killer of her own blood and flesh and her conscience will bother her forever. She insisted that she wants to have an abortion because that baby can ruin all her dreams in the future. She also said that she don't want that baby to be born and be miserable because she was a product of a one night stand without love.

She also scared on her parents that has a high expectation to her. She also ashamed to her friends because she was known as an innocent and sweet girl. I am the only one person she choose to trust and told her situation and she needs my help.

I asked her what he wants and she said she wants an abortion before her tummy gets bigger. She wants me to look for a medicine or herbal medicine that can use to abort the baby. I feel like I am between helping my friend and also choosing not to help her because it's not right. Her wants is not so humane. It is a mortal sin and I will take it in my conscience forever. I will also be a killer if I will do it.

I tried to convince her not to do it. I do my best to change her mind but it seems her decision is final. I can't help her with that as I am not agreeing with her wants. I said no to her and I said she needs to think of it a lot of times because it's not just a small sin. It's about killing an innocent baby.

She respected my decision and never contacted me again. I don't care if our friendship will became over for choosing not to help her. I stand for what is right and I am happy with it. I am just praying for her and for her enlightenment.

THE END..

I know we have different opinions about abortion , some of you are in favor to it and some are not, like me. For some people , they want the abortion to be legal because of many reasons but for me I don't want the abortion to be legal. I am a pro life and each of us needs to be responsible of our action. If you have unwanted pregnancy and you think that baby can ruin your future , is that a valid reason to kill? Who's fault is that? Is that a baby fault or yours? Maybe you will say if that girl is a rape victim? I have watched a story like that and she choose to deliver the baby and love that baby with all her heart.

Every baby is a blessing and didn't deserved to be killed. They deserved to see the world , to be loved and be cared.