We all know that women are very moody, unpredictable, hard to understand especially during their red days. If you know what I mean. In my case, it's the other way around. It's not me but my husband who is very moody.
My husband is 3 years older than me. I am aware that maturity has no exact measurement, I can say that he's still not matured enough. I often have a hard time understanding him. My patience is always under the test. Here are some scenarios that made him mad at me.
WHEN I PUT LESS/TOO MUCH SUGAR IN HIS MILK. He gets really pissed off when I do this. This isn't intentional though. There were just times that it happens because I am in a hurry doing other things. Like, I needed to finish cooking, washing the dishes, doing the laundry, before going to my part time job.
WHEN I FORGET TO SWITCH OFF THE FAN BEFORE RUNNING TO THE BATHROOM TO PEE. I'm just away for less than five minutes. I'll be using the fan again anyways when I came back from the bathroom. I know it's my fault but is it really a big deal to be mad at me? He won't talk to me for hours sometimes days because I forgot to switch off the fan. How was that?
WHEN I FORGET TO GREET HIM ON MY SOCIAL MEDIA ACCOUNTS ON OUR MONTHSARY. I'm really confused with this part though. He wants me to greet him online but when I tag him, he'll just hide it in his profile. How was that? And he'll act all pissed off saying I am denying him to the public.
WHEN OUR TV'S HDMI CONNECTION STOPPED WORKING. He blamed me for what happened to our tv. So we are using an extension for the fan and laptop that was connected to the socket where the tv is plugged.
As we were watching a movie, he closed the lights so it's dark. And i accidentally stepped on the extension cord and the fan was plugged. After that, the tv screen went black.
He was really mad at me that time. He was about to hit me for that if not for his brother who stopped him. And I am 8th month pregnant.
He never talked to me for weeks and was cold to me until he had the technician checked our tv for repair. It turns out that it was his laptop who was having issues and not the tv itself. That's when he seem to be back to normal with me.
WHEN I GRABBED THE CAR'S HANDLE TO GET OFF. I didn't know that he also pressed the unlock button in his end in the driver's control. He cursed and was mad at me for doing it. According to him, it will cause some damage to the car. I didn't mean to do it. If I knew he's gonna press the control then I wouldn't pull the unlock handle on my end.
It all seem to be little things but his anger is as if I have done a crime. It made me feel like I'm the worst person he's ever met.
Oh, and before I forget. He also have this funny attitude where he would ask me non-stop about my past and would not talk to me for weeks becasue of jealousy later on.
I don't know why he's like that. I don't know what to do with him. I guess this is one of the things I need to endure since I chose him to be the father of my child.
