What weak spots need attention in your life?

Each of us has its own soft spots in our life, that sometimes weakened us, and might changed our views and in relating to the people around us. Some of this maybe triggered by someone that comes in our life encounter day by day, in which are going through. Have you not known that we can still work it out, and change for the better self, that we want to be this coming year unfolded in our life.

Here are some examples of weak spots of humans, it might be with one of us.

1.Taking criticisms

How do you deal with critics around you? Are you often mad when someone tells that you need to improve on some parts of your life to become effective? Well, for me, its one of my weak spot personally, I was weak when someone tells me that I've lack on something. Yes, I feel mad about it,or discouraged to pursue my goals if I heard a person who give comment on how I work.

But, I've come to the point of realizing, that it's all up to us, on how we deal with it, if we want to accept of neglect their thoughts. On the other hand, if their words are helpful and for the sake of improvement, its also better if we will try to embraced it and try if it will give us benefit.

Only if, criticisms are affecting us emotionally, we should also be brave enough to defend our mind and heart in letting it in with our hearts. Nothing should be the one has the right to put us on the state of hating ourselves.

For me, the most effective way to deal with it, is to being silent, because it is of no used if we will still say anything back, silent is a better way.

2.Being too nice

Are you a type of person who is often described for being too nice?

I know some people who have that kind of character, and I'm the one to be stressed out everytime I can see or hear them, being abused by others, just because they are too nice through giving chances and opportunities, but then, they are being abused. Yes, its not bad to be nice all the time. But, you know it can also be our weak spot.

We have experienced it in our family, when my mom showed a very nice and accommodating attitude to a stranger who came into our house, and later on we found out that it was a harmful person. Because it has a history of almost killing their relatives, and when we find out we were afraid, because they used to sleep in my parents house. And later on, she showed a weird attitude and say inappropriate words to my parents.

That is why, if we are a nice person, it is also better if we are wise enough to deal it.

3.Lack of Patience

I myself can say, that I'm the one whose having this kind of weakness. Lately, I've been impatient, especially to my children will quarrel at home.

I don't like to wait for too long too, I'm totally impatient about that.

Life always require us to be patient all the time so that we can lived in order. When we lost patience, everything will just be ruined in a single action of words that we can do.

End thoughts

Everybody has its own weak spots to deal with, we maybe the same on the other side but you and I are peculiar people who are distinctively unique in every character abd attitude.

Much better, that we will expand, extend our understand with each other, so that we cannot take care of our relationships, towards our family, friends, workmates and everyone else.

There's always a new chances to move forward today, tomorrow and until the time that we exist. Let us all look forward to another year of striving and aiming to live this life in a productive way, which we aim as always.

Good day and thanks for dropping here.