Does gentleman still matters?

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When you have a dinner with your man, he will get a chair for you, or entering the house he will open the window.He will not touch you at least with permission and talking to a girl politely.

For girls, do you prefer a gentlemen or not?And how important to have a partner, husband who have this attitude?

Women would feel very special if they are treated gently with men.Like getting a chair, opening a window, it seems that we are valued or important person.I have observed that the humanity have changes especially with spouses.There are women have a very strong personality thise who are independent that makes a man feel embarrassed sometimes.However,in terms of being gentle it will give so much impression for a woman if she can experienced it.

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Are there still husband who are gentlemen?

Well,I'm married for almost 10 years now but I have observed that my husband have changed.When we were just in boyfriend,girlfriend status she treated me gently.We walk at the same pace on the road, but now he will walk faster ahead of me, hehe. Wife, do you experience the same. But I'm not bitter to say that every husband was like this. I see some couple that stays sweet for the long years of being together.

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Its just something funny that my friend tell me, during the first stage of the relationship they called each other as "Sweet", but after a few years they call each other " Psssst", while "Honey", turns out to " Hoy".Its not a guess but its really true to some couple.

When was the last that you experienced a gentleman's gestures?Was it important?

That changes that I've mentioned usually happened when it evaluate people around me and to my friends who are close to me.How did it happened?

What makes treatment become come?

Quarrel

If the couple often quarrel and a lot of argument with some unresolved issue they will end up experiencing coldness in marriage.

Lack of time to bond together

Most couple especially when both are working, they are having a hard time to spend together.And it happens to us, my husband day off is just once a week and during Sunday but we some this day still doing household chores.

Note that, this is also might not be applicable to all girls.We should be specific in doing this, to avoid misinterpretation with other guy.The actions must also not be driven by impressing someone but by heart.Maybe its a good thing to do this with our special someone or to our mother whom we should give highest regards.

Believe it or not things really changed especially when both spouse are old aged.Their actions are not the same with the young ones,that's why it doesn't matter how big things we can do, even just a very simple things for our partner is all that matters.

Women have the tendency to unlike this especially when they feel hurt by men and with their pasts, they might see it as a destructive.

But what's the point is that you can make a woman feel really special if they are treated this way.Like crossing the road and you hold her hand at your right side, it makes her feel safe and secure with her company.And you know what its a good tactic for men if they want something from their woman, to make her feel sweet they will successfully achieve a yes if they will do it heartily to her.

And it will be paid back with a rewards from a girl if they feel gently taking care.

It's a good benefit also for men and a good modelling actions for young men to their wife or girlfriend like this, it will serve as a legacy for the family.And the fact is, it will unlock the intimacy that they can create as a spouse.

It emphasized sincere love and genuine for a woman, it really matters.

Be gentle man!

Thanks for reading.

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Almost 4 years in a relationship but I'm still getting the love my boyfriend has been showing since day 1. I really hope that he sustains this gesture in the coming 20 to 60 years of being together soon. Haha

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I hope that positive view of you will come true.But as long as you loved each other and put God in the center of your relationship ,that's possible .

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Everything is possible with Him ❤

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