Differences of a man and a woman

A man and a woman differ in many aspects, personality, character and their habits, wants, focus, and perspective in life. Their opposite attributes sometimes cause them conflict but it also helps them grow together as one.

For the married, or for someone who is having a partner, may I ask, what did you learned from your spouse when it comes to differences, how they differ from you?

• When a man says, "I want blue then it's blue" but with women, there are sets of questions to ask before they come up to decide that they want color blue".

Men decide and ask direct questions, they can decide quicker than women, especially when buying in a grocery store, when they will bring a lists they will follow it, and buy immediately. But, when women do the grocery purchasing, they can also have a lists but it still takes time for them decide, because they will think more what kind of item they will buy based on price, quality and a lot more detail that's how the women differ from men.

• Women takes time to decide than men.

When my husband told by his boss that he can stay in with the company's house, and he can bring us with him. But, when he told me about that, I felt worried and there are a lot of things that come into my mind, both positive and negative. It takes month before I finally say yes, and we transfered already.

Women are worrier than men

Personally, I am worrier than my husband, everytime the kids are not feeling well, I am not comfortable until they will be fine. I can't sleep at night thinking a lot of "what if's". But, my husband just sleep peacefully even when I am worried, and when I ask him if he is not worried, he said, he is worrying too, but he is at peace because he knows that I will always be there for the kids.

That's what women are, because we have the mother instinct that cares for the family,and it is our responsibility.

• Women has its own language

Sometimes when my husband ask me, "are you okay",I will say, Yes.,even if I'm not, in short yes means no.

Women's language is sometimes "indirect or opposite while men are straightforward.

There are a lot of things that men and women have differ, but in the end they will still met in both ends. For a married, couple or partners, we still agreed each other because of :

Love

The love that binds us together as a couple, have uncover our differences, yes, we still have arguments, but we patiently understand for some reasons. Without love we are in constant conflict.

Acceptance

I couldn't change my husband or he could do the same with me, it's only by accepting the negative and positive side with the both of us.

Two stranger people that comes together is really amazing on how it works, but it's absolutely very challenging day by day.Yes,there are still problems, and forgiveness will bind us together again.

It really matters also to communicate and be open in conversation with our spouse, partners, so that we will not be surprised in the revelation of our uniqueness. During our marriage counseling, I remember that the councilor told us, that 5 years in a relationship is just an adjustment period, it's a critical part of journey, and I always put that in my mind when we have disagreement, but now, that we are in our 12 years, we partly know each other, but we are still imperfect.

"Having a relationship is like growing a plant, we need to water it daily".

A man and a woman is like sweet and sour, they are both in opposite forms.

Hello there friends, I apologize for being so inactive lately, I wish to take time reading your blogs but sadly,our place haven't no internet connection that's why, I barely check your posts.

But, I thank you all for being a supportive writer to me, my sponsors, and readers, may you be blessed.