Changes makes change

There are no constant things on earth except "Changes". I hear these words from my teacher in History and until now I can't forget them. I find this words real, you and me and all of us have been through changes in our life this day and I know that there will be new changes to come in our life.

Changes happen in every aspect of our life, physical, emotional, spiritual changes, financial, and social, environmental.

Sometimes it brings us too much pain and difficulties to adapt to this kind of situation, especially when we are already in a habit of doing our daily tasks and suddenly things will change.

Personally, the biggest changes in my life happen when I get married, when I was single I never been had a problem with finances, relationships, physical but now I've been through a lot of tough times in my life which makes me cry out to God. But I never blame anyone even God because it's me who made a choice and this choice brings me the called" Life".

Changes sometimes can be a demand from someone you love. What if you are courting someone or you are in a relationship that demands changes with your physical appearance, behavior, and character? Are you open to it? Or will you keep a distance from her or him? Changes are not easy, because sometimes we can't give up on something that already gives us motivation in our daily and in just a moment you give up. Love is love, and if you truly love someone, you can accept his or her flaws and differences, love will change the person itself that needs no demands or force to let the man or woman change himself.

My husband was a blessing to me but before we met he was the kind of man that I never dream of marrying because he is full of vices but thankfully I never knew his story until we get married. Because when we met he was already changed by God, without a punch from his mother. God changed his life through his words and was so blessed. Changes in possible when God works I have witnessed them. It's the real miracle that I've seen many times. I didn't conclude that my husband is a perfect person but I can say that at least the vices that he had which are already been changed ultimately gave me too much joy.

There's always a so-called "New", new trends and it gives us the challenge to adapt to this kind of changes then there's always been a new model of everything, cell phones, laptop, fashion, and everything, there's no " constant "at all.

And sometimes it causes us stress and a big deal when thongs are kept on upgrading, and it means another expense and budget for us to get into these things. This only means that human has a lot of knowledge in store to take a step yo new changes that he has in mind. Humans have the power to make a change, like a new invention, upgrading trending stuff, ait there's only one thing that is hard to change, and that is " character".

We had an expression," this is me, I am for what I am, you have to accept me because this is me."

Some people are not open to changes, well changes happen at the right time, and if God's will a person can be changed.

Like a wife who keeps on praying that her husband will change because it gives her too much burden. And the question is "when will you change?" On the other hand are becoming tired of waiting for the change to happen and just "give up", and resulting in a broken relationship.

Changes are like a " metamorphosis", from an odd to a beautiful one like a butterfly who shows its beauty through times. It will start a small inch little by little until such time that is already completed. Well, because we are flesh and blood it is our nature to fail and make mistakes but just like they say "until there's an also-called new day" it means we still have chances to make a change and become a better person.

Not only humans are capable of changes but also the earth, nature itself has changed so much. The environment in this season has become worst than few years before our existence. Just as we can see that there are mountains that have no trees and others are diverted into something like a place like tourist spots. Cutting of trees which makes us paid it all, during heavy rains happened and some places suffer from flooding and landslide.

Before we can drink fresh water but now we already buy water because it's not healthy for consumption anymore. The earth is changing itself as what we observed, the earthquake who strikes different part of the world, this is the first time that we have experienced this situation from another place to another the earthquake had happened the flooding, and most of all the pandemic, which we have been for a long time now.

Sometimes I was thinking about the next generations, my children are just so young, how can they adapt to the changes through times, or will they behave a good future when the world is changing through times. That's is why we need to educate our children about these changes that happen so that they will not be shocked when it comes to adapting to their environment.

Technology is the most advanced in changes, now and then there are new upgraded versions so how can we adopt these changes?

• Embrace technology

We believe it or not, technology advances every time that is why we need to embrace these changes and learn from them, the more embrace this, the more we can learn and accept changes.

• Learn new skills

By learning new skills we are ready to engage the changes in business, media, and social life, it will become easy for us to find a new venture in life.

• Recognize that change is constant

Change is the only constant of all, nothing can ever say that all things will stay just as it is, if we often disagree with changes then it will cause us trouble and stress.

• Self-reflect

Why we need to reflect about ourselves?

We need to make a realization in our life, what are the things that we need to change and how could it helps us a lot of it will happen.Reflection is pondering yourself strength and weakness your purpose and your goals in life that keep you going through , once you found it you can live better and productive.

• Be optimistic even if you are not happy

We can't survive in this world if we just keep on pushing ourself away from this current situation, what we gonna do is to fit in with our environment in a positive way which will help us to survive and learn from it .Positive attitude will help us to overcome the new world situation.

Changes is happening now like the virus it changes us fully, and believe it or not there are more changes to come in our life that is why we can be more prepared with ourselves if we keep our eyes open.Dont just stay on a corner but learn new craft which will help you cope this life changing world.

This world is getting old, and like a human nature, the older the person, the changes is going on over and over again.

Life is a constant change, and it will always be,don't be surprised but except that it will be.

Thank you.