Why So Shy ?

Some attitude I see reasons to, some others I don't see any reasons too, as much as it's a normal human trait, its neccessary we learn otherwise. Shyness has got a lot of downsides, it's good we know how to do away with it. Being shy is something we all have experienced, many are still experiencing, it's just a normal occurrence, we can liken it to anger, jealousy and so on, there are many attributes we posses as humans, some good and some not so good, we just have to learn in the course of life.

We can adjust to changing the things we don't like and see to improve on the characters we like and are good for us. Its not enough for us to grow up and increase in heights, we must also see to increase in personalities, and push to be better, attributes like shyness don't have much goodness to offer, its best then that we look to being more bold and outspoken, this has more benefits for us as humans.

Children are more prone to be shy in time past, you could literary see them cry when ask to talk in a crowd, they were only comfortable at home, it was fun though, as they grew some of them became bolder while few others still haven't dealt with their shyness. However the children of nowadays are bolder in terms of percentage ratings, now we get to see a lot of children doing big things and doing it well, many are already stars and can speak well on an interview, we the older ones who were shy at that age begin to regret, lol, we could have used that opportunity to start up, because everyone love children, if a kid does something its more probable that he would get more accolades compared to an adult, but most of us were shy, well some of us are still shy.

Do you imagine how many opportunities we have lost, places we have to go but were busy being afriad of embarrassing ourselves, people we had to talk to but we were stuttering, it sends a signal like we are not capable of handling matters. When we see people speak and appear boldly, we often thing they are super humans, only until later before we realize that there's nothing special to it, we were only being shy for nothing, like being shy for absolutely nothing, we are all humans, we all alike, and prone to mistake and embarrassment, so there's completely no use being shy.

Why are you shy? Have you gotten a reason why it's OK to be shy, when we understand that there are no benefits to being and staying shy, then we can start looking for ways to stop it. If we still feel its normal to be shy and since everyone experiences it, then why do we have to strain ourselves to change it, then we might just keep nursing the habit. Shyness is bad, quite normal though but not beneficial.

Some have said shyness makes one calm and quiet and its good, but that's not true, shy people are quiet and calm because they are afraid and have no option than to be quiet and calm and not because its their character. Bold people too can be quiet and calm if they choose too and not because they are afraid, yet when the need arise they can speak out too.

So many people are talented with bright ideas, but the reason why they are yet hidden is because they are shy to come out, so many auditions they could have attended, so many competitions they would have won, but shyness of people would not make them take such great steps. Shyness is slightly of a low self esteem, slightly because they could be sure of their worth and proud of theirselves but just the fear of embarrassment is a reason why they are distancing themselves off the bold steps.

Few others have gotten job interviews but they lost it because they were not outspoken. Many can't lead people who were place behind them to lead, their leadership capacities has been stained not because they are incapable but they can't face people to talk and direct them. Little by little it begins to be pronounced and the subjects or apprentices begin to see their leader as incapable as he can't relate with them and this can cost them the role. All because of shyness that has not been dealt with.

There are so many people who are looking up to you, if at all then your kids would very much look up to you, for such reasons we must see to adjust all traits that might not be worthy of emulation. Shyness can linger for a longer time and be more pronounce that people can tell, however we need to tell people to be more outspoken, and how best than to set an example by yourself.

Overcoming Shyness is possible, when you realize that we are all humans, no one is big enough to make your heart skip or stutter at their presence. Groom yourselves to becoming bolder, a bold person is more capable of grabbing opportunities. Be Bold, seek to overcome shyness.

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