Maybe we need to be constantly reminded that we are only humans, we don't see the future, we don't read minds and we sure can't predict certainly what's going to happen. The best we can do is to decide base on how we feel, but then its just a feeling, that hunch could be right or wrong, jumping to conclusion over a hunch is bad communication. Why not know what is truly going on, why not find ways to get explanation for people's action before you conclude on their personality and worst so spread it across. So many misunderstanding has created some of the worst rifts the world has ever seen.

The Story :

A wife saw her husband hugging another lady, the other lady was seductively dressed and she concluded that her husband was having an affair, she seeing her husband hug this lady became a deal breaker for her. Her countenance changed completely towards her husband, it got to pronounced that the husband knew something was off, he too seeked for an answer to his wife strange attitude, so instead of talking to his wife about it, went about trailing his wife, going through her phones and suspecting anyone he saw around her, of course his wife was beautiful so men came around and on one occasions he saw his wife laughing so helplessly at another's man joke and it felt like they both had some connection. There you go, that is it, that's the man she's cheating on me with. He too had concluded.

Now the husband too is giving attitude and hating on his wife, still trailing her movement looking for better evidence before he charges her to a divorce, the wife already suspicious begin to notice her husband dislike for her and it added to her claim that her husband is definitely having an affair. Things only went from bad to worst, as little issues that could be settled aggrieviatted to serious matters that caused lots of insults and yes one day it lead to a serious fight, the man has finally raised his hands to beat his wife after over 3 years of marriage, and people found it funny that the cause of the fight was a mere change of television channel, she changed the channel and he wanted to see another channel, and slowly it got into a heated argument and yes broke into a fight.

Presently this two couples are seated at a lawyers office, filling for divorce, a marriage so sweet has finally gone sour, both now have their love turn soar. Just then the both families decided to meet up to understand what went down, but it still was not making sense to them. Like this issues are too small to cause such havoc, something is definitely wrong somewhere. Just then the sexy looking girl tge wife caught the husband hugging walked into the house and went straight to greeting the husband's mom and brother, only to find out she was his cousin, and he was in the area and decided to check on her cousin brother who works close by. The regret on the wives face was indescribable, she just kept it to herself, moreover he husband beat her up so that is another damage she wasn't ready to let go of.

The husband's mother kept on saying she doesn't believe that's such issues as to he doesn't speak to me, or he changed the TV from what I wanted to watch, or he refuse to do the Laundry as I was very tired was the reason why the couples are going to be splitting up, there was an issue somewhere, so she asked the question, the question they both should have asked their selves as matured couples but rather choose to assume by theirselves and conclude their partners was unfaithful. So the mom asked her daughter, dear have you ever been unfaithful to your husband, and she said No, just then the angry husband opened up.

You bloody liar, I saw her flirting with a man from her work, ok what did you see her do? Well she was laughing and touching the man. Was she naked? No he answered, she was just laughing and touching a man, it sounded insane even ti the man at this junction, well the wife explained that he was only a friend who was very funny and he happened to say something funny so she laughed but she was guilty too cause she also thought her husband was cheating on her with the young lady sitting there, but just finding out she was only his cousin cause she saw them both hugging. And the husband did stand to take Blames too that he concluded his wife was cheating because he sensed a difference in character, and instead of discussing it out, he choose to conclude and stalk her movement.

Well we thank God, they both have gone to the root of the issues, and are both ready to make things work again, calling off the divorce and establishing a better communication between theirselves. Its an issue we see rampant, people concluding on who is good or who is bad from afar without properly meeting to know. Worst still others have completely judged another person because a friend said bad about the person, let's get to know things for ourselves and be sure before concluding.

Communication is key to a healthy relationship, be it a friendship, business association, or marriage, in fact any dealings involving two or more people must and should have a good communication existing. Stop assuming the worst in people, well stop assuming the best too, try to get to know and do this by communicating properly.

Thanks For Reading.