Reunions Isn't The End Of Life

Whenever we reunite with people from our past, we see the excitement, the hugs, the laughter, everyone so look happy to see each, hey look how you've grown, wow you look really nice, everyone is acting all nice and charitable. Well it's only going to last a few hours at most, so why not just be nice and smiling even when your enemy comes around, or you're being teased, we want to let it slide. We have spent so much already in planning for this reunion, it just shouldn't go bad. We have gone the extra no doubt, so when we meet it won't seem as though the lord is not good to me alone., infact we want to stand out.

The concept of a planned reunion Is good, in fact great but over the years, we have seen reunions cause so much negative effects than positive. Does that mean we should scrap away the idea of reunion, no we shouldn't, the benefit of reconnecting with the people you were once connected to is just superb, everyone were in a closed space formerly, before life happened and you were all dispersed, everyone doing what they can do to be better than their former self. So there is no way you meet someone after a long while and there is nothing to learn or gain from them, almost impossible I must say.

This reunion has changed a lot of people's life for real, seeing that old class mate of yours after a while, now discovered that he or she owns or is a vital role player in a firm you are aspiring to be in, its almost a done deal that he or she is determined to walk you through the process, or simply help you for old time sake, just with that encounter your life is gradually changing. Meeting up with that old time friend, who is wealthy and has promised to help you with whatever you need to make that bold move you've been saving up for. You see all this among others, clearly shown that reunions are great ideas.

However today, what do we see happening around all in the name of reunion. Its almost like our lives is being tested. We want to meet up to standard and blow everyone's mind who we are meeting that day. Well this is not really bad, but it's so unnecessary, For some, things might not be going so well, yet they try so hard to hide it that day, if it entails them borrowing everything just to hide the shame, they would, but I hope they have a plan to gaining better that day. Maybe it's their approach to be able to mingle better with a better looking apperance. I'm no judge, all I can say is there is a lot to gain from meeting friends and longtime family.

Help comes from here too, as normal as help comes from interacting with others, moreover humans are social beings, but this people from our reunion holds a softer spot for us and they can help you more probably than any other else. So let's be open for helping , open your heart and be helped and to help too. As much as we can be selfish, we want to be helped, we must look out for those who we can help also, nothing is too small, no one is too great, help someone rise today, help your old time pal or family. You too can be helped, be open for it.

So be humble, reunion don't last long, they can only stay a while, so seize the moment and keep a better stronger relationship with them, if at all, you never know who you'll be needing tomorrow. Humans are social beings and so connect guys. Calls are good, a facetime is great yet can not be compared to a personal meeting with the person. When we call, the reciever can decide not to pick up, same goes with facetime, and give excuse later. But with the personal meeting a lot can be done, you're seeing the person in real life, the reunion has serve its purpose , plus it offers another opportunity to create a nice impression.

It's sad so many people have lost the true meaning of a reunion and turned it into a competition. It's a reunion, meaning it's a meeting with people from your past. Past meaning this individual have been there when things weren't all rosy. If they didn't laugh and judge you in time past, then they still wouldn't, even if they do, what do you care, all would be well. So reunion isn't a time to prove any point to anyone, it isn't a time to go into debt because you're trying to keep up with appearances, be true and real to yourself, reunions were meant for fun and help. Have fun and seek a better life from this mingle.

Like I have earlier said, a lot of people have been positive helped from just a reunion, while many others are in debt or simply not helped because they went trying to show off and be life of the day. That's why I said reunion are not the end, if you don't have your aspirations yet and another have it, then try to reunite and ask for help. Be it your high school reunion, your university reunion, club reunion, whatever it is that brought you together with some people, try to connect, you just never know. Reunions are not the end of the world, so take it easy. What reunion are you planning now, are you eager to see them too and hear their stories. #Reunite.

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