Misunderstandings Are Normal

As normal as it is to fall in love, as normal as it is to be jealous of someone, as normal as it is to want to have urges which you can tell someone about, also it is normal to be misunderstood. Every country, every homes, every gathering, every individuals must see to this, that whenever a misunderstanding arise, it should be for a solution in view and not a must win situation. We often behave in such a way as though we have a price to win at every argument, we don't want to back down for another, most common among friends, you'll see this more pronounced, one would expect that friends would be exempted as they wouldn't care letting go and giving another the victory, I guess it has eaten deep into us, we don't see the bad it does in the big picture.

Nations are at war against themselves, countries fight against another, just because of this, no one is ready to calm for the other. No issue starts big, it's all from a small smoke then escalated to the hot war we see. When you reason to understand what happened in the first place, what caused this whole havoc in the first instance, and we will see that it was something that could have easily been averted had both parties come to a mutual agreement.

When last did you admit your flaws, or have you never been wrong, we are all humans and mistakes are part of our learning process, its almost inseparable, you learn via acquiring knowledge either by teachings or by experience, so you had made a mistake, the person or people who you're trying to shy away from, by adamantly saying you are right also have made a mistake, so there really is no shame in admitting to fault, even there are times when we are not sure if we are right or wrong, yet we should be ready and prepared to say, oh then I was wrong, my bad, I'm sorry.

The people in managerial positions, the top key holders must learn to imbibe the character of publicly admitting to flaws, as well as the public bringing down their expectations from the leaders, not expecting that they become supernatural enough to not make a mistake, they too are humans just like everyone else. So when they make a mistake, we should accept and then see what can be done together, rather than make it a living hell for them, this way the next person wouldn't admit to fault and would always claim to be right, and little strives are the wind the escalate the smoke to a great furnace.

Often time I had concluded that no one really wants to lose, doesn't matter if you have a proofs against them, they still wouldn't want to give into you, and so we'll just keep arguing and losing our voice in the process. Then I met some people who change my perception then and I was like okay, though it might be a natural habit it still could be turn aright. We could be discussing and an argument arise, with many eyes witness, already I'd expect that there's no way any of us would agree because then the people around might take it that our words are no more valid. But no, with good points they quickly admit as if they are not Shamed, oh I was wrong sorry.

A sense of victory right, yes I guess so, but it makes the guy who admits more respectable, because next time he's in an argument, everyone would likely be on his side, because they feel like if he was wrong he would have admitted, so seeing he is not succumbing, then he knows what he's saying. Let's learn to admit our wrongs when we are wrong, and get a resolution that fosters peace. That quarrel, that argument, that debate, that misunderstanding shouldn't lead to fight or way, you both should be ready to say sorry, and move on to greater things, there's absolutely no shame in that.

Reason for this is simply to set things straight for the upcoming to see, today you lead and everyone watches, tomorrow another would lead, someone who watched, what have he or she seen that you'll expect to enjoy. Act right and lay good values worthy of imbibing. Fathers and mothers at home should be active practitioners of this said topic, couples really have the most heated arguments, and the most sensitive too, the kids are watching, have they learnt to say "I was wrong dear, I was the one who mixed it up, you were right all along, or have they learnt to stand their ground even when they are at fault. They are watching and learning simultaneously.

Everyday we mix with different people, from different homes and upbringing, with separate ideologies, so it's rather inevitable that there would be peace all through, conflict is bound to sprout up, misunderstanding is going to start the coexisting process, but then if we can't deal with it, it'll only get worse and likely grow to grudes, then graduating to enemies, it can be stopped when both parties are ready to admit and apologize should they be wrong, because the main mindset should be to learn and come to a conclusion, a solution and not to win at all cost.

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