Everyone Needs Help

It's never enough to show Kindness, each breaking day is a huge opportunity to show love again. So many people go through a lot day in and day, it's only good that we offer goodness to the world. Generally be kind to people who are in need of help if you are in a position to assist. Don't hold back cause nothing is certain, we all need help one way or the other, even the richest man still need some kind of help his money can't buy, this is what often make us turn to a supreme being, cause God is the only one so powerful and needs no help whatsoever from anyone yet he never gets tired of helping anyone, his store never runs out.

Basically one truth is that we all need help, no man has got it all, and no one will, someone needs someone, everybody needs Somebody, without the help of someone, we may never get to the stage we are in presently. So we all need help, if you feel you need nobody to help you anymore, then its clear you don't wish to aim higher to being like some certain people doing much better or you're just comfortable, we need help to go higher, it can be money, information, connection and so on but in all this someone needs to assist, so yes we all need help.

Some person however need help more than we do, maybe not money alone but mostly money, they pray daily for help because things just sort of happened unplanned and unprepared for, now they are feeling helpless with much responsibilities to cater for, I'm focusing on the widows on this article. Its never easy having to raise a family on your own especially as a woman. I don't mean women are weaker, just stating they are not supposed to be stressed so much.

More reason why women don't do some certain kind of straining jobs, like bricklaying, construction heavy lifting and the like, and we must respect them for the sweet delicatel people that they are. This is another reason to want to help a widow woman who is undergoing undue stress cause she lost her husband. It doesn't really matter if they have a child or are barren, the pain of losing the one you love is already enough pain, it's not a time to tell them to be strong only, but still help them to be strong, if you are capable let's help them find a reason to smile. Children who forgets their parents are another cause for concern, especially when the parents are old or alone and still leave them to work like they are still young, is no way a right move to take.

Have you met a widow later, have you seen one recently. How often do they slide into thoughts, how often do they lose their happiness suddenly when they are reminded, the depression is real and pronounced, some however take solace in the comfort of their kids, others are not so lucky, however my main issue is the women who can't feed or get basic needs because of their husband loss, now they are conformed into the little they can, and adding to the emotional stress to the money need, in no time few has completely lost, some has found no reason to keep on living. Its true, some are strong enough to push through others are not so strong, either ways they deserve to be happy so let's be extra kind to them.

A big shout out also to all the single moms who are putting their time, resources in fact putting their all to ensure they train up their child in the best possible way, it's not all single mom who are divorced for trivial matters, some needed to let off for the greater good, probably their safety and that of their kids, the supposed husband could be an addict or player and it was bad for a home and kid So they left, some reasons are tangible. However if matters are resolvable, then its better it be resolved as either party can't play the others role as the other would. A man is best suited for a father and a woman mother, and every child deserves such experience, but if need be its best being separate, then its best for the child too.

We tend to be natural kind to women, their nature makes it so, however we need to be extra kind to widows, its never their fault to experience such ordeal, so many of them unlike the men refuses to remarry and many still refuses to have anything to do with any other man, the level of commitment is always worth applauding, some with kids focus on training their kids and that's what their life gets centred about, and they do a good job.

If you are in a position to help you should do it and do it well because God too is intentionall about them. Oh yes, we can't speak same for every beggar though because few of them are only lazy and not incapacitated, they have what it takes to earn but chooses to take the other route, but for widows is not so, life caught them bad and helpless, so do well to give a helping hand if you can.

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