Are You Truly Loyal?

Are you truly loyal or it's all a means to getting your way out. I've seen so many persons appear so loyal only to turn out to be arrogant and proud when they finally attain their intended height, day by day people are seeking for a way to having a better life and it doesn't matter what they have to do as long as it fetches them their desired results at last. However it truly pays to be loyal not because you're forced into it, but because you know the benefits of being loyal, as much as some people are fooled, others may never be fooled, they have their ways of knowing those who truly are loyal or not, if your greed is all there is, you may never pass such test.

Loyalty cut across may grounds, from business, to family, to relationships, to plans, to friends, in loyalty we find diligence and strength to stay and wait. Loyalty is a more of a gift, you can't buy true loyalty from anyone, people who buy loyalty would surely lose it when a higher bidder comes, but when there is a conviction as to why you need to be loyal to someone or to a cause then it would take more than a money or force to pull you away. Its the backbone of every solid relationship, where two or more people are gathered there is meant to be misunderstanding, but loyalty to the mission keeps them striving and going for the goal, when couples fight what makes them return back without external damages is cause of Loyalty from both side. Actions speak louder than words, so those loyalty speak louder than promises.

So much we can promise when we are in need, times when we are humble not because we are naturally humble but there's something we need so we have to play the card. Everyone has a good level of ego, we all love to be on top with everyone giving up our due respect, however sometimes we have to let go of our ego and be humble to receive. Well its alright, its a smart action, to understand when to be humble and when to take back your pride, but wait a moment and be in the shoes of the person offering the help. How would you feel to help someone who you think is loyal only to rise him or her and see it was all a disguise.

Many promises we can make, oh if you help me with this, I will never forget you, I would do this in return, I would bla bla bla, but just when the deal is done, zoom off we go, and it feel like the helper is now the pest. Some of us must have lend money or something to someone in time past with them promising to return in a set time, now its well past the due date and you are calling, they are making it look like you're disturbing, you also feel like letting go, you've learnt your lesson. Much more than promising, please be truly loyal.

Time would show who is truly loyal, it can't be guessed or believed based on promises, when the going get tough, tough enough to sieve away many of the so called friends or spouse and sometimes family, then your eyes would be open to the fact that your real circle comprises of very few people, mom, dad and few others. Yes, mom and dad has been proven all over the world to be your die hard fan, supporting you genuinely without any strings attached. Siblings,most times but not always. Friends too can be loyal but then we have to be very careful, experience has thought the world a lot I guess.

Wealthy guys have a lot to battle with the issue of loyalty, they see fake love everyone, people wanting to prove their loyalty to them whereas they know they just want to be helped. You can't blame the rich from always being strict and hard to approach, most of them weren't that way from the onset but people have given them some bitter experience so enough that they decide to adjust to certain kind of lifestyle to protect and prevent more unwanted happenings from occurring anymore. The rich also need help some times but then they don't see anymore willing to go the extra mile for them, people seize the opportunity to exploit more.

The remedy to the aforementioned is to help without expecting anything in return, yes we know, but the fact that as humans our needs are insatiable would always make us wish that our needs comes easier, its always easier to ask a favour than to render one. Getting a loyal person is hard to the rich, many people are asking with the promise of loyalty, but when you have played your part, expecting the other person to reciprocate, would the loyalty continue.

As much as loyalty is required to our person to person relationship, its also needed to our ambitions, we have our various goals and aspirations, it's not just enough to have it in mind, we need an undying passion to see it accomplished, this is loyalty to the dream. What happens when things are not going as planned, what do we do, do we quickly run off to the new plan that would be easier to operate, or we seek to make it work, we require loyalty to the dream to make it work.

If you see someone who is truly loyal to you, do appreciate them, some friends are just awesome, always supporting you in whatever you do, they can come over in the rain just because you called them over. They have put you in their heart and really want to see you succeed, appreciate your family whose loyalty has been from your birth, up till date and still counting. Each relationship needs loyalty to keep moving smoothly, Loyalty to the dream has always yield good results and would continue to. Loyalty is a gift, true loyalty can't be bought. More importantly are you also loyal? You should be too.

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