Let's Welcome August Happy New month everyone, it's the 8th month of the year already, someone is saying "wow so fast", well yeah so fast indeed, and it would keep on going forward, time has never returned backward to say "oh sorry I went to fast", rather its journey is head on straight like a soldier matching forward. August more like every other month holds a lot of possibilities, however we choices of actions would be the defining factor if truly, August would be…
@Willtravis in August 2021
Learning To Smile While Waiting It doesn't come easy to everyone, some people are seeing life more hotter and harder than we are, in fact some people pray to have at least like you. To them having what you have would be a breakthrough, you and I on the other hand don't really appreciate our present state, we pray for higher, no one should appreciate their current state, not even the wealthy men, they still aim for higher. Contentment is a needed tool, it doesn't mean we…
Get Money First, Passion Second (This Article Contains My Perspective To Work, Not To Be Imposed On Anyone). We don't need to lie to ourselves anymore, telling people to go for passion when they aren't able to eat first or settle a lot of basic needs. Passion too requires finance to scale more. Lack of proper funding can make that passion lose its burning fire. For instance, haven't you listened to many amazing songs from people who aren't popular, and listened to some bad…
The Outside World Outside appears differently to everyone, dependent on various affecting factors, to some its location, to some its family, to some its the sense of reasoning, to some its their conditions. But one thing stands sure and that's the fact that we all need to go outside, staying inside is staying limited, is staying scared or frightening, it means being inferior with low self esteem, the true test of our existence is when we get outside, we get to the world…
What Should I Consider In Finding A Spouse Now I'm searching hard and intentional about finding someone who would be by my side, and I intend to know what i should be looking out for and what not I should be looking out for, so many things i've been searching for based on my fantasies, only to find out that I've been searching in the wrong places. Its good I follow my heart and do what pleases me, but I still need to learn so I don't regret my actions. We only have one life…
Good Pride, Bad Pride I too thought pride was fully bad, like outrightly wrong, if you have pride then you're on your way to doom, not until I took a critical look at it and observed it clearer to see that pride also has its goof as well as its bad. A king would always advice is son on how to pride in his title, God wants us to pride in him, we too need to have pride in what we have done to boost our confidence, there are a lot of angles we can drive through to expand om the…
What Would Our Children See Hello parents, and ofcourse potential mothers and fathers here, be aware that now is the time for any possible readjustment if need be. In no distant time from now we would be gifted with children, I know many of y'all be thinking you still got many years to turn up before considering having kids but I say it's still of better advantage if we start now. There are quite a number of things to consider readjusting so our kids would see and learn what…
God Gave Me A Gift I guess he knew what I would need, something that would help me on this planet I'm living. At first I was feeling some kind of way, stranded, helpless like I didn't know what to do next. As a grown up I know I have to get my legacy started, no not necessarily about the money, mainly about my name, when people hear my name what do they think of me, what notion have I given to them, what impression have I created in their heart, this is what I'm caring about…
All Would Be Alright We all wish life was easier, like wishes were horses, so we can just say a word or wish a thing and it comes to pass, like we are Prince or princess of a palace with everyone or everything obeying to our every call and response. Wouldn't it be sweet, but apparently its can only be a dream, reality is far from that, reality teaches us more of being a farmer than being a Prince or Princess, so now we learn to sow and expect to reap, in fact we keep sowing…
Pointing Accusing Fingers Are you guilty of this, being so judgemental, so quick to judge someone for their actions and reactions, we have been told its bad but we can't help it, although nowadays we are quick to say "Who am I to judge" but deep down in our hearts we have judge already, in fact we have already sentenced and jailed the person and nothing can change the way we view such person from henceforth. Well this habit is not entirely bad, because we have to understand…
Is This Love That I'm Feeling? Maybe I need an expert to enlighten me more cause I don't understand this feeling I'm getting anymore. Is this what true love means, or I'm I only over thinking the situations, is it all up in my head. I know love is an unexplainable feeling, it feels so deep and so good it wants to turn our head upside down. Just a moment apart and I'm already craving for more time out, on the phone call my smile comes uncontrollably and I suddenly get angry…
What My Mama Told Me What did your mama tell you, truly the first teacher we have, before we learn for ourselves, they were there guiding us all step of the way, actively representing Dad who is out there trying to ensure we are comfortable t home. Therefore it can only be them we can ask those questions to, remember we are young and inexperienced, so there are a lot of questions raising up in our minds, we turn and look and there is mama, so she gets our questions, and she…
D-day I Encountered BCH I can forget lot of things in life, more so I forget lot of people in life also and you can't blame it cause it isn't really my fault, they have very little or no impact in my life, so I can forget, but some things I've encountered has changed me a lot, their effect on me can't be denied or overlooked, it is so evident that its noticeable. Among many of this remarkable events that I have experienced personally, knowing BCH is by far a must know. Its a…
Trust The Process Sometimes we just need to know we are on the right track and trust the process enough to continue. See every win and every set back as part of the marching forward. Not just to business alone, trusting the process is still very much useful in the areas of a career search path, in the area of relationships too, trusting that all would be well if we continue on that same path relentless. However it can't be easy to trust the process if you aren't sure, we…
Talking Carelessly Apparently life teaches us a lot as the day goes by, among the many things we learnt we can deny that we now see the importance of watching our words. Popular saying is watch your tongue, it all signifies the same thing, it's a call to making someone say the right or better thing rather than say words that may provoke consequences. Well it's no breaking news that most people no longer care on how their words would hurt the next person, they just do what…
Plan A Vacation For Yourself It doesn't have to be exclusive, it doesn't have to be simple neither, the main essence isn't to flaunt or proof you can pay for an expensive treat, rather just to take a time out from the stress and relax, you've very much deserved it, moreover the vacation isn't forever, neither would it show that you're not serious with your life, its a mere show of happiness for yourself and probably your loved one if there is enough to get an extra.…
Thoughts Keeping Me Up At Night Do you have anything so all up in your mind that it keeps you up, unknowingly to you minutes to hours has been spent involuntarily with that thought so all up in our minds. Of course peace of mind is Paramount but we can really help it, remember our wants and needs are numerous plus they are insatiable, so with each day be sure there is something that's filling your thoughts. For students it could be that coming examination they are so…
Free Spirited, Hold No Grudges Are you aware its a harder task to hold grudges with someone than to be at peace with them. You don't have to be in bad terms with someone, there is absolutely no need for that, that you then hate to see that person walk in or stay close to you, or worst you both have a task to do together, the whole heart beating and skipping with rising temperature, all this are so not important. Indeed we can be at peace without having to be friends, just…
My Neighbors Are The Craziest How do you guys find good and loving neighbors to live next to, cause these people living close to me are very far from good, let's not talk about loving. Good thing we rarely have reasons to stay on the street or move over to have a conversation with our neighbors, so most times it's just needed we head out and come back into the house to rest. Yet the scarcity never stops any issues from arising, I wonder how it'll be like if we were always…
Opportunity Can Come Again I know we must have heard the popular saying, "don't waste any opportunity, cause opportunity comes but once", well I belong to a different school of thought, of course I'm not saying its OK to misuse an opportunity, or that same opportunity lost would be regain, sometimes that opportunity gone is gone forever, but it doesn't say that is the end of the road for you. You know the slogan so make it seems like as soon as you've misused or lost a…
Savings Or Investments, Which You'd Prefer? Hard times calls for hard decisions, everyday comes with its expenses but we can never be too prepared for tomorrow, what if the job stops paying, what if the company I'm employed to closes up, what if I get into unexpected needs, would I have enough to settle the bills? How about planning for a future, I want to get this or buy that in 2 years times, I want to plan this down for my unborn kids, then I have to start now, be it a…
Pass Your Baton Life didn't start with you and it might not end with you, if I'm to say it how i feel it would be then I'll say life still has millions of years to go before it comes to an end. However we are running the race presently, its our turn, didn't you know you're already on track, the gun shot has already sounded at birth, maybe because we were so young we didn't hear the start, now we are grown and we can't afford not to run. With each passing seconds to minutes…
Don't Date Cause They're Cute If you know the numbers of relationships people get into daily all because the person is cute, little wonder why the numbers of break up too are escalating by the day, its not a gamble, mere looks doesn't sustain the affairs of the heart, you can only be mesmerized by the attractions for so long, shortly you'd begin to get disgusted by more important issues that's lacking in the person. We don't want to make choices, especially life choices like…
Understanding People And Their Differences This is vital to our daily coexistence, to know that Jack is different from bill and Mary is different from rose, there is no particular law to generally bind everyone together so you can simply follow and you'll be at peace with everyone. I bet you that no matter how good you are, some people still wouldn't like you, oh in fact they would step on your toes and pinch your last nerves. You also aren't exempted, as you also can be…
Finding The Root Cause Of Any Problem Its often deeper and more than what meets the eye, the problem or issues anyone might be facing today may simply be an extension of something else, something that already happened and wasn't treated rightly. For example someone's attitude towards you might be so off and you begin to wonder why so much resentment for you, you should be aware that people don't mostly react to that hurtful stuff you did to them that instant but that creates…
How Big Do You Dream? Well I don't mean the dreams of a sleeper, I know few of you would take if for "how big are your night dreams, do you go so deep into the ultra realms", but what I'm really trying to buttress is how deep do you aspire. Call it aspirations, call it ambitions, expectations, whatever you call it as long as it's all a future plan then it's still a dream, your dream for the future. However its not a must it would be actutalize, same way it's not a must your…
Learn To Sell Yourself Do you know how much you'll gain if people knew what you've got to offer. One major area in all companies that can never be joked with is the area of sales, if they aren't ready to make sales then I only wonder what motivated the business idea into reality in the first place. Sales is Paramount, both the product sale and as in this case as being discussed "the sale of our person", sell yourself and what you entail, let the world be aware to know this…