Flirting, according to Wikipedia, is a social and sexual behavior involving spoken or written communication, as well as body language, by one person to another, either to suggest interest in a deeper relationship with the other person, or if done playfully, for amusement.
Well to make it short, Flirting is basically the art of showing your interest to someone, usually in a playful and fun way. For some people, flirting comes naturally. These are the pro. Flirting is much like nothing for them, easy-peasy as they say. But for others, flirting seems like an impossible thing to do. And if you are one of them, it's okay, because anyone can improve their flirting skills. It's never too late to step up your game. Knowing the right way to flirt can mean the difference between creeping someone out and actually getting a date with them.
The best thing about flirting is that you don't have to be a supermodel in order to be successful at it. (Though it's a huge plus if you are LOL). You just have to know how to act and when to act. Here are some of the proven ways to help you get started so you can flirt like a pro in no time.
1. Maintain eye contact
Eye contact is a powerful connection between two human beings. Being able to recognize and respond to it, whether verbally or in terms of understanding what it means, is a big part of human interaction. Strong eye contact is both how women see confidence in men, and is the first step in forming a personal connection.
Maintaining eye contact is a powerful form of communication for humans. In cinema, the initial moment of eye contact between two potential love interests plays an important role in the plot. After all, the eyes are often considered the windows to the soul.
2. Be Funny
If you think you are someone who ins't blessed with looks, then that's sad. But it isn't the end for you, you can still do something in order for you to look good and increase your level of attraction, especially when you are flirting.
Be funny. Humor is one of the most attractive trait someone can have. In fact, the idea that women love a man that can make them laugh is an almost universal cliche. But what doesn't get said is how humor helps increase attraction.
3. Smile
Never forget to smile when you are talking to someone you're interested with. Smiling makes you more attractive. A smile is to flirting while air is to breathing. Without it, flirting is impossible. Smiling draws people in and makes them feel welcome. People who frown, grimace, or appear depressed or angry at the world turn people off.
You shouldn't assume that everyone who smiles at you is flirting with you. However, you can tell a lot about a person's intentions toward you and interest in you from the manner in which he or she smiles when interacting with you.
4. Confidence is the Key
The first three ways are useless if you don't have this, probably the most important. Confidence is either something you have or you don't. It is one of the most attractive quality a person can possess.
Ever wondered why some people flirts so easily? It's because they are confident. People are attracted in many ways to a confident person. From sexual attraction to platonic friendship attraction.
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Got more ways on how to flirt? Feel free to comment it down below. It's a big help for me. Hahaha. Thank you!
did it work for you sir?