We currently live in a society where we don't really teach young man about the fundamentals of how attractions really works. So unless someone that is natural, a person who's always been confident and charming around girls, chances are they have to learn it from someone like older brother or a friend and other that they will search the internet for an article about how dating stuff really works.
In fact, it's probably why you are here in this article, right? But don't get me wrong, I think it's great that more guys than ever are taking the initiatives to seek out this information better themselves.
But the problem is that so many guys think that by learning all this pick-up techniques on how to approach a woman, how to be qualified to her and how to get her somehow turns into this cassanova whose all of a sudden able to seduce any woman.
But here's the truth, no matter how many tricks you learn or a lines you memorized, your results will never gonna be what you truly wants unless you become an attractive person on the inside. Until you work on your inner character, the way you think, the attitude you keep about yourself and about woman, no other technique is magically gonna get you a girlfriend of your dreams.
Here are the useful and effective ways to be totally attractive to women.
3 P's
Presence. Playfulness. Positivity.
By combining these 3 key mindsets. You're immediately gonna make a shift in your inner psychology to become more attractive.
Presence.
Be aware on what's happening around you. Listen to what she is saying. Reply to her to make a conversation. You need to be very present and very aware about what she says.
Playfulness.
Keep it fun and light-hearted as possible. Whatever happens, you need to show her a smile in any ways. Keeping everything playful and light-hearted can make a girl find you attractive.
Positive.
You need to be mindful about your languages. Think about the words before you say towards a girl. Having positive intentions can also mean going out of your way to truly understand a girl you are trying to get. To really know her soul, it means you never make her out to be the bad guy. You need to make her understand that both of you are in the same team.
Be hard and be soft.
Be the man who can handle things on your ways to overcome obstacles. You should be able to speak up for yourself, someone who's decisive and knows where he is going. But on the inside, you should be able to speak up to her and show your soft inside. She should be able to see your compassionate side. A kind of affection inside that's willing to be very vulnerable to her. Combining both hard and soft part of you, you'll become someone that a woman won't be able to resist. And combination of badass and sweetie could really make a woman attracted to you.
But whatever may happens, always show the respects that every woman deserves. It's not always that we can please any woman simply because each individual has their own quality. And the thing we called "love" sometimes happen in a very unexpected ways and situation. If she can't be yours, give way and respect her decision. Don't rush, you'll find someone that is really meant for you.
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