Love is the reason where there is hate..

I was thinking what to write after my daughter told me why try this one mom, "Love is the reason where there is Hate" and I found it hard to explain but as I think harder I remember my kids witness our fights me and my husband had and I know it's not good to let our kids witnessed it.

We have four kids, the eldest is 15 years old girl, second and third are boys 12 and 6 years old and the youngest going 3 this May a beautiful baby girl.

We didn't want them to see us fight but sometimes trials are trying to ruin are relationship but that doesn't mean we have to give up. Problems are maid to solve and lessons are made to study and what we learned will keep us strong.

Love Is the reason why we are here in this world all of us are made with love. And love is the reason of everything, if we can't love what life could we have? Maybe selfishness and anger. Then how love made us hate the world?

Because Love has a deep lie, How?

When we fight, what would you expect words that will come out in our mouth? Ratherly bad right? So the point is you Hate because you love that person, you hate because you want that person to love you back as much as you love him. But sometimes the more you expect the greater the pain. So why have it naturally, we won't be together for decades if don't love one another. And So we lie when we get mad we want split ups or wide space to keep a distance from one another. But that doesn't mean that we hated one another, it's just its normal because we still are different person from another. We Have different decisions, different body different mind so when we argue I know it's normal to let hatred ease the anger.

Then after a while we need forgiveness to occupy the empty space..

After we hate we still love, because all of us gets mad. And we miss that person who makes us mad but we still gonna find that person who will make us complete. We still return and find that person. Because as the old ones said, "The more you hate The more you love"

And I was thinking all about this i remember In my previous article, I hope I didn't let you go I felt i was the selfish one, did I lack of trust on him? If only could turn back the hands of time I wont let him go. But as I was looking on the bright side I realized that God has a planned for everything. He gave another blessing and an unexpected one. She was our lucky charm.

And i realized sometimes we need to look at the things we didn't expect will happen, because they're might the things that will make you happier. And sometimes the plans that you planned was not meant for you to do. But it dosent mean you will end up waiting, we just need to be ready for what is coming because we'll never what are the plans God is making for us.

I really want to write a different love story this love month and your comments will really help me in writing. Thank you so much for dropping by..

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