30th month as a couple

Lots of people do not appear to have learned anything from their previous relationships. They appear to believe that the best strategies to get over a painful breakup are to numb their grief or occupy themselves with someone new. Bad experiences can make you bitter, but don't be scared to try something new, take a risk, and keep pushing forward...

I believe this is how my romance began. If it's like a Disney love story or a K-drama for others, for us, all genres seem to have been claimed such as comedy with romance, and sometimes even a thrill at the end. We're not going to add action genre because we haven't gotten to the point where we're fighting physically.

Anyway, the focus of this piece is on my partner and me. As a result, I'm hoping you won't be bored while reading it. I'm not sure how long this essay will be, but first and foremost, I'd like to thank you for getting this far, and I hope that after reading it, you will have gained new insights and takeaways that will benefit you as a person.

Year April 2019- I've met the most wonderful person

We agreed to try our luck at becoming the best couple and handling each other appropriately once we verified our affections to each other. I can honestly say that the start of our relationship was quite straightforward. Simple wars and mocking occur from time to time, but then, we will eventually embrace each other.

As you know, my partner and I have a lot of differences in terms of values and morality, as well as differing opinions. But, fortunately, and partly due to him, we are able to meet halfway and appreciate each other's points of view.

Me and Him VS. Pandemic

When we were in the seventh month of our romance, the pandemic began. I believe we are being put to the test by fate here. Because we hadn't spent much time together before, there were instances when I would overthink things and end up fighting with him. However, we are still here and remain strong for each other because of our love for each other.

Trying to deal with the pandemic faced us with numerous challenges and difficulties. I also noticed how he became distant months ago, and I know it was mainly due to me. I've made some mistakes, and I don't always listen to him.

But in the end...

Thank God, we still choose to forgive each other in the end. I was even more certain that he truly cares about me and loves me very much.

And now, we are already in the 30th month of our journey as a couple. 😍🥰

To my most Beloved Man,

I know I tell you how much I love you all the time. But, hopefully, you'll always remember that you're the only one I ever think about admiring. I want you to know that, even if we aren't ideal for each other, I choose you every day. Even if we sometimes feel so lost and we don't understand each other, I hope you know that despite our troubles, you are still the one I choose. Even though we aren't as sweet as we once were, keep in mind that you are still the one who delights me, and I am happiest when I am with you.

All I desire is that we can always overcome the challenges that God throws our way and continue to love each other.

Takeaways

Being in a relationship does not mean you cannot live without a man. Some people enjoy both loving and being in love with a specific person. I was weary of being in love with someone at first. I used to be a sucker for bad guys, which resulted in a plethora of life traumas. But when I began to love again, I realized that this is true love, and true love may be found in the most unexpected places.

XX

Usagi