The Game

It's interesting what relationships as become in recent times while a party is going to the relationship with the whole of their heart their counterpart is going into the relationship with the whole of their head.

In most cases victims of this kind of relationship are often not aware that what they think is a relationship is nothing but a game. We all know what happens in a game. It's a situation where there is a winner and a loser. If you're not aware of a competition you are involved in how then can you outsmart your opponent.

At first things seem to be going on fine but every good that happens in the beginning is a means to an end. The gifts, the numerous dates, the Hello's in the morning afternoon and night, the eat out together, the cooking she does for you and the washing.

All of this is to get you to be comfortable and unsuspecting of their real motive. This real motive could be to get you down as they have promised the boys and other times to strip you of your wealth and properties. When the deed is done and they are now successful the next stage is seeing the writings on the wall.

The calls vanished, you're left to nurse thoughts of what might be wrong. They are online yet they don't get to send you a dm anymore. The dates becomes once in a blue moon and they no longer drop by as usual all because of their tight schedule. Day in and out the situation deteriorates.

You're left to give an explanation for how your relationship as turned. You call and they won't pick up, you want stop by but they are always not around, you sent the birthday gift but they never saw it.

Slowly you're dying in silence with no one to give you a befitting answer since they have been giving you the silence treatment.

Here is an answer to your question

✓ what you thought was so important to you wasn't to them

✓They lost interest in you at some point. Since you have become uninteresting for them

✓They had ulterior motives even before the whole thing started

✓They have Reached their goals already in other words you have just been used.

✓Ultimately it's was a game so they used their heads you used your heart. They won you loosed.

Am sorry if I was mean but it is what it is.