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Everything happens for a reason. People change so you can learn to let go. Things go wrong so that you appreciate them when they're right. You believe lies so you eventually learn to trust no one but yourself and sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together.
Everything happens for a reason
Life cannot give us instructions for use. Everyone lives the way they know or as they believe is best for them. We all create our own fairytale world and allow only one part of reality to come to us because we think it will make it easier for us to endure what life brings us. And there always comes a moment when every person in life asks themselves, “Why me? Why is this happening to me? ” We feel many of our events are inconceivable, unjust and even cruel. Confused, wounded and disappointed, we are never able to find the true meaning of these events and what they mean for our lives. But, after a while, when we start thinking with a sober head, we find that yet everything in life happens for a reason and that each event has its own meaning, its own purpose, and a secret message that needs to be understood. Every event, and even the worst problems, carry within them hidden possibilities and important lessons that we had to learn in one way or another. A man who has fallen ill and helplessly spent some time in bed will surely value his life and health more.No one can influence the flow of destiny because as long as we live, we will not understand the true essence of life and all the things that happen to us. We can direct life towards our goals and dreams, but we cannot influence events because no one can know what can happen tomorrow around the next corner. The only thing left for us to do is to accept what is inevitable and to learn the most from it. In doing so, we must always be realistic and call a spade a spade. When we lose love, we are desperate and grieving, and we are seldom able to comprehend why this happened. But, after a period of calming down with destiny, we realize that this is how it had to be, and if we realistically analyze the past, we find that we may have idealized that person too much and expected too much. People change and so do our loved ones and everything we experience with them. So many times after a certain amount of time, we find that this was the right solution and a lesson for the future, even though we paid for it with tears and suffering.