Signs to know, whether you are a mature man or an immature man!

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You may have seen many such people who seem to be sensible in appearance and their age will also be sensible but none of their work will be sensible. And you may have seen a child who looks very naughty but his actions and words are more than those of sensible people.

Most people think that intelligence comes with age but this is wrong. Some people are born intelligent and some people do not become intelligent even after doing all kinds of work and living their whole life. Today I will tell you some of the signs of sensible people that they are sensible people like this. They have some special habits inside them. If they are inside you then you are also a sensible person. This thing doesn't matter. At the moment you are 14 years old, 15 years old, or 20 years old. If you are a smart person, you may be smarter than your teachers.

Sign NO.1:

The first point is that sensible people do not try to change other people. A sensible person who has a friend never tries to change him. He accepts this person as he/she is. Most people think of a mature person as a person who is a little stubborn and discusses with others only what he or she wants and does not joke at all. But mature people are a little bit different. Everywhere they go people get obsessed with them. People start liking them more and more. They start living around them. Because they never change people, they adopt them the way they are.

But an immature person says that I do not like this thing of yours. People start running away from him because of the words of an immature person, then they make him laugh in front of him. But when he leaves, they do evil to him.

Once a lock maker locked his shop and left. Inside the shop were many tools and many keys. The hammer asks the key how small you are. Even so, you open such a strong lock. And I am so much bigger and stronger than you, yet when I have to open the lock I have to break the lock in a very bad way. But you go inside the lock with great ease and open the lock with ease. When the hammer asked this question to the key, the key replied to him that I do not force anyone like you but I go inside his heart and go inside his heart and understand him. And then it opens automatically.

Sign NO.2:

Immature people are always very defensive. For example, if you tell them that you are abusive, they will not think that I am abusive. They begin to defend themselves. And in return, they will surely answer you in such a way that your brother also utters abusive words. 

But on the other hand, you see a mature person abusing you and you tell him that you are abusing him a lot. So in return, he will tell you, yes man do something about it try to control it. In fact, mature people think from within that I can always be wrong. This world is so big there is so much knowledge in this world I can never get all the knowledge so they admit their mistake quickly. On the other hand, an immature person never wants to be proved wrong and always hides his mistake.

Sign NO.3:

The third habit of immature people is that they want to be successful as soon as possible.  If an immature person starts a business today and does not show any results within a week or two, he will say that this business is futile and he will never succeed. They do not understand that success comes after many failures. When a foolish person encounters a failure, he thinks that he has failed in this business and if I have failed then it is impossible to succeed in it.  

Sign NO.4:

The fourth sign of an immature person is that they will never be able to control their emotions. When they are happy, they will say something that will hurt them after they are happy. They will think then why did I say such a thing. When they are angry they will say some bad words which they will later understand that I said very badly. Immature people can never control their anger and their emotions.

On the other hand, a mature person is a great mastermind. He knows how to get rid of anger. He uses his emotions well.

Sign NO.5:

The fifth sign of a mature person focuses on the solution of the problem more than the problem if you put them in any problem. So they will try to find a solution at that time, they will not say bad things about it and they will not blame you, but they will find a solution to this problem.

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Yeah to be smarter one you have to follow the rules and got those attitude and manner .

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